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40 Montclair, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 2
Black, Other
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Post grad
Might want kids
English, Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm the type of person that loves to socialize, go out, and meet new people but also enjoys my downtime where I can just relax and unwind with a good book or movie. I work a lot which is why I'm giving online dating a try but during my free time I try to make every second count. Life is too short not to enjoy it. I value quality over quantity in just about everything, including my friends. I surround myself with people who bring out the best in me and embody values that I admire. I'm hoping to find a person who's chemistry matches my own and is able to attract me mentally, emotionally, and physically. A best friend. Basically, the full package
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
how can I possibly take more advantage of the here and now, hug the moment I'm in and kiss goodbye the worries, the many ??? and learn just like kids do and me once did every day:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bringing people together and turning negatives into positives
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* My family/friends
* Food, not so much because it's a necessity. It's truly one of my favorite pass times.
* Books
* Compass
* Mini swiss army knife (for survival purposes in case I get lost in a jungle again)
* Hiking boots
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to reach my goals and my next vacation destination, domestic or international. I really enjoying discovering new places.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not thinking about work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I'm currently thinking what I would do to you if we hit it off and I get my hands on you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
* You have no baggage or resentment from past relationships. Life really does go on and you deserve the opportunity to be loved.
* Love music and enjoy dancing or are willing to at least try or take a lesson so you can join me once in a while when I need to let loose.
* You believe in living life to the fullest and enjoy nature