I love food, art, beauty... sybarite is the word. I'll also accept
"voluptuary" and "sensualist," "hedonist" on a good day. I've been
called a bad boy but I dunno... Can you make a great Hollandaise
sauce AND be a bad boy? I do have hope for that someone, etc. etc.
But let's face it, odds are long and life is short. If we wind up
just having fun (long-time NYer, I know all the fun stuff),
awesome. If it turns into something, better. I nuzzle hard. I bike.
I look up. I've been told I have "an extraordinarily well-shaped
philtrum." I wax rhapsodic a lot, especially in parks. (Just furrow
your brow and say "Wow, that's so interesting. I never thought
about it that way.") I don't know how much longer I can go on
saying "I." I like spirited discussions/disagreements and am turned
off by acquiescence. On the other hand, I'm chivalrous and if you
hate chivalry I'll be more chivalrous to annoy you. On the other
hand I might, on a whim, throw you over my shoulder and carry you
to the bed Brando style. Kinky but nothing of the "Ew!/Ow!"
variety. Lots of affectionate so if you're a non-touch person, not
going to work. And I'm not into messaging back n forth forever no
matter how banterable you are. I prefer eye-contact to
"It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances. The
true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible."
I've had trouble getting across here exactly what I'm looking for.
I guess I should just say I ultimately want a loyal monogamish
relationship with a deep, affectionate, smart, sex-positive
someone. Or if it turns out we're not that then let's just dress up
and be explorers.