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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Black, Native American, Other
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Greek (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hello, my name is Ray if you didn’t catch that from my screen name. Lover of Strong women (both mentally & physically), Fitness, Healthy Eating, craft beers, whiskey, cartoons, going on random adventures, music and movies! I'm a former chef. I still enjoy cooking at home, just not professionally anymore. Tattooed and loving it! I’m a complete & total goofball when i feel comfortable enough with the person. My humor ranges from Dry to Slapstick Funny to the Dark and Morbid. I'm extremely sarcastic! You've been warned... (cue: Dramatic music) I can sometimes be shy at first, but a few drinks, a gorgeous smile, a awesome energy and/or a warm welcoming personality can take care of that right away. I'm traditional in my ways. I hear pretty often that I have an old soul. You can decide for yourself when we talk and or meet. I just believe in treating people the way I would want to be treated. So many have forgotten the lost art of chivalry, manners & etiquette ... its right here, let me show you. I'm an open book, so don't be shy I'm excited about the opportunity to meet new awesome people and to hopefully have some fun adventures.

Diving a little deeper into the book of Ray... I’m freaking rad! Here are some cliff notes to my radness. =) I love surrounding myself with people that have positive & uplifting energies about themselves. Hopefully thats you. If it is then lets just enjoy each others company and see where it goes. If you know anything about astrology and horoscopes I'm a true Aries. I’d consider myself to be a diamond in the rough. But I’m constantly working on improving and polishing the diamond that I am.

Most Compatible Signs: Sagittarius, Leo, Libra, Aquarius & Gemini
What I’m doing with my life
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Living my life to be successful and happy! :D Currently I produce Techno and DJ. I'm also a Fitness & Nutrition Coach / motivator for BeachBody. Happily changing lives 1 pound at a time. So needless to say Fitness and Music are 2 major passions in my life. I also consult with nightlife venues on how to improve their marketing strategies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting people to believe this is just a really bad tan. Lol

Also the following... Listening, Music, Cuddling, Cooking, Lifting heavy things, Loving, Bicycling, Sarcasm, Going on random adventures, Bowling, Making people laugh, Sketch Art ... just to name a few.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dimples, that we are friends on facebook, I'm a man of my word, I live with purpose. List goes on but i'll let you find out for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Eat That Frog, The 45 Second Napkin Presentation, 25 Ways to Win with People, You Are A Badass, Failing Forward, How To Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, The People Code, The Slight Edge, The Entrepreneur Rollercoaster, Motivation Manifesto, just to name a few.

TV Shows: Adventure Time, Regular Show, The Amazing World of Gumball, Adult Swim, Family Guy, Toonami, Anime, most cartoon, Sons of Anarchy, Moonshiners, Amish Mafia, American Pickers, Dealiest Catch, Ax Men, Swamp People, Defiance, Archer

Movies: I like all genres. I usually go to the movies once a week.

Music: Techno, Tech House, EDM, Metal, Hardcore, Emo, Industrial, Synth pop, Garage, Rock, 80's. I'm open to just about anything though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Companion
Real Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music ... its a major part of my life, Preparing myself for my future, Family, Friends, Work, Life, Personal Development so that I may better myself for the people around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working out, Working, Djing, On my couch, In my studio, Out to dinner, At a dive bar, or bowling. Just to name a few options but i'm pretty open to do anything as long as I'm with the right person or people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ok... I've never told anyone this before. But I was in a Top Secret experiment for the government and I'm really a white man trapped in a black mans body. lmao I've already said to much. =D
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you consider yourself to be pretty rad! :) Only awesome chicks need apply... lol. You're a Flyers fan! You actually own a pair of heels 4" or more! (Its not that serious but i do love a girl in heels) You know the difference btw just enough makeup and wayyyyyyy to much. You're up for working out together. I want someone that is fine with staying in and watching a movie but will also be down for heading out and pulling an all nighter if we decide to. You're looking for good conversation, a new friend, social drinking buddy, fitness buddy, cuddle buddy or maybe something deeper.