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44 Stafford, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:34pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Has kids

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My self-summary
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I am a genuine and sincere guy who perhaps wears his heart on his sleeve a little too much for his own good, but hey, that's me and I won't change as I don't believe in pretending to be someone I'm not. Single by choice but now looking for that someone special to share my time with. Looking for the long not short term relationship.

I enjoy socialising and meeting new people and I have a positive outlook on life and will always ensure that the people I am with are having an equally good time. I like to travel both in and out of the UK and I enjoy watching most sports and although I don't participate in that many, I do like to keep myself fit and active. Then there is the usual stuff such as DVD's, cinema, eating out, eating in, most types of music and good variety of TV and Film interests. I also like to be spontaneous and just "get up and go" without having anything specific in mind!

Well if you've got this far then my profile writing skills must be improving!

So what am I looking for? Someone who like me, would consider themselves to be genuine and trustworthy and shares similar interests and activities although I am a believer in opposites attract! If you're looking for that someone who will treat you as you deserve to be treated and you can do the same for me then please do get in touch.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work full time as an Area Manager for a fashion retailer and I'm also learning to play guitar. Other things I like to do in my spare time are bike riding, badminton and swimming
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to others... without being judgemental! I've been told that perhaps I'm a little too caring for my own good, but that's been a part of me and my life for so long, why change it now? Yes there have been those that have abused that but then I think we've all been the victim of that one way or another.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually its my confidence and sense of humour! I'm a relaxed guy that does have a serious side when needed, but I feel it's important to be relaxed and male sure those that are around you are also relaxed. No point sitting there on edge is there?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hmmm... let's think...

TV: Shameless, Inbetweeners, Derren Brown... Family Guy but don't really watch that much TV. Do mike my stand-up comedians too such as Jimmy Carr and Frankie Boyle (although I draw the line at Chubby Brown... if he's still alive?)

Film: That ranges from the latest hi-tech animations through to SAW. Love a good thriller and a side splitting comedy, but need to have a glass of red and some nibbles :)

As for food I'll eat pretty much anything, just not keen on sweetcorn!

I like reading auto-biographies the best as it helps you understand the building of the person and why they do what they do or are
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children
My phone
My sense of humour!
A best friend
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A life in the sun... Would love to buy a holiday home with a view to retiring in the sun one day. Who doesn't???
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Generally looking forward to a good weekend with friends and still trying to play a bar chord!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put the toilet seat down after me lol...
You should message me if
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If you want to know anything else then please get in touch. There is only so much you can do on a webpage to get yourself across in a positive way but IM is much easier (and quicker)