I blew out a knee while running with my 90 lb Yellow Lab when a squirrel ran across our path. How's that for a visual? Now I cycle and lift weights instead. I'd prefer to meet a woman who also enjoys exercise.
I occasionally smoke, but I avoid tobacco. I particularly like to smoke a little before yoga, going to the gym or fooling around. It'd be nice if you were cool too.
Raising my two teenage boys in a stable, loving home is my number one priority. You probably won't meet them until unless we're in a serious relationship. It might work well if you also have kids who are middle school or high school age. In fact, I'd strongly prefer to meet someone who had kids around the same age.
I'm not hung up on starting a long term relationship because that's not a place you can start off. I'm just trying to meet folks, and see where it leads. I'm always up for an evening out to chat, or a bike ride to see the fall leaves.