Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You stumbled onto another profile in the bay area, so you shouldn't
be surprised to see another geek.
As expected I'm a sorta-typical high-tech nerd working for a
software company who goes to burning man on a regular basis.
A little less predictable things about me:
- I was born & raised in Belgium, Europe. This may explain some
of the quirky things about me, like insisting on mayonnaise on my
- I am married to MistressSFCutie
and we are both
looking to expand our relationships. This doesn't mean that we are
a "package deal", but it does mean that we tell each-other
everything. Whether you call that polyamorous /open/swinger/greedy
is your call.
- I'm kinky in a nerdy sort of way. Into BSDM
. My favorite tool is the
for electrifying play.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to live it to the fullest. I consider myself a "1%-er" in
terms of experiences.
I bike, run, code, scuba dive, sky dive, code, hack, think and
I work in tech. I'm the silent guardian, watchful protector, but
mostly cranky janitor.
We've started a podcast
. If you want to know what we
sound like (or if you prefer the maximal staking option), check out
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Researching things & Building things
- Breaking things & Causing trouble
- Backrubs & Spankings
- Making people laugh or get offended
- Giving people what they need, be it pleasure or pain or anything
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The boyish, mischievous look and the cute butt.
I'm usually called the "instigator", or "villain".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
, Game of Thrones
, Sons of Anarchy
, Being Human
, Breaking Bad
, Walking Dead
, Douglas Adams
, Neal Stephenson
, David Allen
, Tristan Taormino
Thai, French, Japanese, Mongolian
, Pedestrian Polyamory
calls me "the villain"), Life On the Swingset
Sex out Loud
, Get Fit Guy
, Get it Done
, Network Security
Conferences & Events:
, Maker Fair
, Folsom Street Fair
, Burning Man
, Open SF
, Dark Odyssey
, Hacker Dojo
, Bondage A Gogo
, Mission Control
Fetish & Fantasy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen. Touch. Sushi. XKCD
. Mental stimulation. The look in a
women's eyes when she climaxes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Pondering life, happiness in all it's forms. Figuring out new ways
to blow minds.
Also, I can and will debate anything and anybody on any subject I
feel strongly about. I think I got our house on the blacklist of
the door-to-door preachers of most religions by now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... wondering what "normal" people do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As a healthy cisgendered white male, employed in a well-paying job
he likes, living in one of the nicest places in the world, in a
wonderful relationship, I am aware of my "privilege" and thankful
for my good luck.
On the other hand, as a straight guy on a dating site, I should
expect a message reply rate of about 0.4% .
All in all, I can't really complain. Let's just see what happens.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You want to experience a life less vanilla.
- The match is > 80%. Trust the algorithm. I for one welcome our
new robotic overlords.
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