Here's what I guess I like to think about myself:
*Charismatic introvert- I crave social interaction and intimate attention but I need alone time to recharge my batteries
*Feminist... and constantly working at it. I think feminism benefits everyone. I'd love to see a world where women are honored and treated with respect, where trans people are not alienated, and where sex workers are not shamed. I'd like a world in which both men and women are not constantly told that they are weak for having and sharing difficult emotions. I want to support other men and be vulnerable with them instead of feeling threatened and drawn into competiton. I want the patriarchy to fall and along with it hetero normative social constructs and gender binary thinking... that's all.
*Outdoorsy- I teach and practice primitive skills and paleo-technology. This does not mean that I live like a hermit in a debris hut in the woods. I just go to visit one sometimes. I make a lot of my own gear, I can track animals using bird language,and I am the best person to have on your zombie survival team ever.
*Queer- This is complicated because I don't present as queer. I present as very hetero masculine. I like the people that I like regardless of gender or lack thereof. I find myself mostly dating women and other queer/gender queer folk because a lot of cis men are terrible... see above "feminist".
*Poly- I identify as polyamorous. This phrase is defined differently by different people. For me this means connecting both emotionally and physically with more than one person. I am an ethical non-monogamist. I believe in honest, open, sometimes vulnerable communication. This part of my life is a constant work in progress, I still have monogamous socialization and I am still a human with difficult feelings. Deal with it.
*Sex positive- I love sex, and I whole heartedly believe that we as a culture have stigmatized it in a way that is unhealthy. I am open about sex, I physically engage with most of my friends, not always in the form of sex, but I like sharing intimacy. This does not mean that the only thing I want from you is sex. Believe me when I say I'm a lot more complicated than that.