Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am kinky, and non-monogamous. My partner is ILikeBigTubs
I don't know that I have ever had a relationship without some
element of power exchange involved (although I could argue that no
If you are curious about kink/BDSM, or poly I am happy to answer
On that big spectrum of emotional vs. logical, I tend to skew very
heavily toward the logical. That is as much a warning as an
I am a firm believer in a proper cup of tea.
Smart people make me happy. I like all manner of nerd. I value
introspection and the ability to have a conversation about why you
think or believe the things you do.
My favorite things about people are their idiosyncrasies. You're
crazy about toothpicks? I'm fascinated. Afraid of yarn? Tell me
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently I'm learning to sew. I hope to one day make a perfect
I spent many years trying be a painter of pretty pictures only to
discover that the "business of art" makes me want to not be a
painter. So I became a graphic designer. Eventually I want to
become a land baron.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding what makes a person tick. I find people fascinating
(if not always enjoyable).
Finding the fun. I can have fun under almost any
Witty banter. Especially if I am speaking in dirty metaphors.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My awesome mustache, or my bald head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I dearly, dearly miss proper Mexican food. I just found a taco
truck that has pretty delicious tacos, but I'm still on the quest
for more and better. Also, the perfect Thai restaurant has eluded
I like most books. My guilty pleasure is noir and mysteries (don't
judge). My only real criteria for books is that I tend to like a
more contemporary writing style. I don't really think we need to
read the same books to get along, but if it matters to you... I
like Tom Robbins, Hemmingway, Chandler, Mosley, and a million
I like the theatre (but never come late!) and I can watch almost
anything moving on a screen and enjoy it (exceptions: anything of
the 'Jersey Shore'/'The Bachelor' variety). I got rid of
traditional T.V. years ago so everything I watch is online.
My favorite painters are: Lucien Freud, Francis Bacon, Gustav
Klimt, Hopper, Twombly, Monet, Van Gough, Sargeant, Kline, and a
I can't claim that my musical tastes define me. That being said, I
tend toward 'alternative' music: The Shins, Bad Religion, Metric,
Alice in Chains, Deo... I also listen to classic rock and a dash of
metal. And I have a weakness for harmonizing and banjos.
For news I listen to N.P.R. with a special love for "Wait, Wait,
Don't Tell Me" and "Marketplace".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.Curiosity - A lack of curiosity is the only real sin for me
2.Adventure - Everything can be an adventure with the proper
attitude and provisions
3.Friends - Who else can you go on adventures with? Plus talking
about philosophy, gossiping, or watching Movies
4.Intellect - Like to get my smart on when I can. Fun facts,
history, Cosmo quizzes. I like it all.
5.Quiet time - If I don't get a quiet morning to recharge myself
now and again, I totally fall apart.
6. Snuggling - Two words: Cuddle. Whore.
6 1/2.Chili Dogs - If I need to explain this, you will never
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Crafting, building ,fixing. How to solve website problems. Ways to
both sleep in and go out. Wondering how people can believe things
they have never spent any real time considering. My frustration
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home snuggling on the couch/in bed, going out to dance clubs, going
out to not-dance clubs, going to dinner, spending time with
friends. Basically doing something fun with people I like.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I need a lot of room to dance. I don't necessarily dance well, but
I dance big.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're open to non-monogamous people, and...
You are smart, fun, eccentric and aren't afraid of new
If throwing a party to celebrate national nacho day seems like a
If you hear that we're having a Ru-Paul's Drag Race
marathon/slumber party with drinking game and want to be
If you would want to win a contest where first prize was getting to
be the first person to rummage through an attic that's been sealed
for 100 years.
Who are you looking for?
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