I don't know that I have ever had a relationship without some element of power exchange involved (although I could argue that no one does).
If you are curious about kink/BDSM, or poly I am happy to answer questions.
On that big spectrum of emotional vs. logical, I tend to skew very heavily toward the logical. That is as much a warning as an advertisement.
I am a firm believer in a proper cup of tea.
Smart people make me happy. I like all manner of nerd. I value introspection and the ability to have a conversation about why you think or believe the things you do.
My favorite things about people are their idiosyncrasies. You're crazy about toothpicks? I'm fascinated. Afraid of yarn? Tell me more!