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30 Astoria, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I just turned dirty 30 and so far this year I put out an album (that I spent 6 years producing), started my own company, bought an expensive camera and said fuck it, I'm going big and hopefully not home. So far I haven't had to move back in with Mom.

I work in video and music (often combined). I can write, perform and produce you a song then shoot and edit your music video too.

OK, let me try to do a politically correct identification here:
Cisgendered heterosexual male/gentleman/atheist/feminist/GGG/kinkster (with strong punk rock roots)! I'm a college-educated DIY artist. 420 friendly. Any questions?
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a chameleon of the underground scenes and am often out working at parties, playing in/seeing bands, or just hanging out and supporting friends.

I am always in and out of different interesting bands that usually require some level of dress-up and theatrics. I love Nirvana, but the era of not looking like you care is over. In addition, I have been writing and producing my own project for years.

I work mostly in video. I specialize in event coverage and have for most of my life been capturing and preserving the underground arts and music wherever I am living. For the past almost 10 years, that place has been NYC. Lately I've been filming more music videos. Bringing back the videos! Want to see?

Oh and let me take your picture!
I’m really good at
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I'm really good at finding a balance between extremes. I go hard in whatever I do, but enjoy my downtime as well. My friends have called me "a calming presence" and I'll take it.

I'm really good at saying yes to any projects that come my way. It makes my life consistently busy and silly. More art > less art.

My friends encourage me to note that I make awesome chocolate chip cookies (without the chocolate chips). I don't like chocolate but i'll make some with for you if you do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite music is probably the soundtrack to your angsty 90's teenage years: Nirvana, NIN, GWAR, Garbage, BILE, Manson, Snake River Conspiracy, Smashing Pumpkins, old MSI, Buckethead...

Also old punk rock like Misfits, Meatmen, Minor Threat, Black Flag, Bad Brains, Ramones.

Also the only good modern punk band there is: The World/Inferno Friendship Society.

I'm extremely sad about the passing of Dave Brockie (but very excited about the re-emergence of Mike Bishop). If you know what I'm talking about, you should probably talk to me.

My DVD collection (which stopped growing after leaving my job at Best Buy almost 10 years ago) largely consists of b-horror 80's comedies and other gems like SLC Punk. If it's any hint to my character, I just donated $50 to the indie-go-go for the Forbidden Zone sequel.

I probably have the largest Phantom of the Opera movie collection in NYC. What can I say, I'm a geek about some weird things. Do you have any idea how many times people have fucked up that original book? Every single one! Fun to watch the weird ways they change it though, like that Robert Englund version where he skins and wears people's faces instead of a mask.

I miss Weeds but I'll take the Orange show but I think Californiacation was the best TV show in the past 10 years. I'm a big fan of the Daily Show/Colbert/@midnite Comedy Central lineup.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How come pop stars look rock but never do? How come I never see anyone wearing Beyonce shirts? You all want to rep the Ramones but listen to Bey. What's up with that? I miss Janet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hired out taping a show or party, playing a show, attending a party, or not. Friday is kind of just like any other day for me. Actually, I probably end up out on Thursdays more than Fridays.
You should message me if
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You want to trade interesting stories about life, trade cool music, and make art over a smoke or a drink. You are forward-thinking. You think like Dan Savage. You want to be fetlife friends.