Hello, my name is Cole and I have a wonderful girlfriend who rocks my socks (among other things). Whom I met on this site. Her screenname is ickimickigreen. We are looking to bring another woman into our relationship, but would rather avoid any one night stands. Rather, we're looking for regular friend with benefits who is willing to become a part of our lives. Someone who is willing to hang out and join us for dates. I know relationships take time to build, but we don’t mind exchanging emails for weeks or months, taking the time to get to know someone before bringing them into our relationship. Can't wait to hear from you!

A few other things about me:
-I really like wine but don't like being drunk
-Love my cats and I don't think that makes me gay
-Like going to school simply for the point of learning new things
-Mock religion frequently
-Call me vain, but I'm not attracted to extremely overweight people
-I'm very open minded and like to try unconventional things
-Driving fast on curvy roads makes me smile
-My home office is covered in posters of space ... and a very large Jolly Roger flag that I used to fly from my tank in the Army.
-Silly and serious, I can never quite make up my mind which I prefer.

Pretty much what I mentioned above, working full time - going to school a lot of the time, doing homework, and trying to have a social life ... when I have time. It's not all business, I do my best to fit in some time for fun whenever possible. But to sum it up - I'd really like to be rich, but short of that I'd just like to have fun and enjoy life. I enjoy hockey, video games and having a slightly off-center sense of humor.

I hear that I'm a pretty decent writer. Poetry, stories, professional letters, you name it I can write it. One semester I even tutored writing at the college. I'm also good at sarcasm and making light of everyday situations. There's always a reason to smile, even while the house is burning down (unless you're trapped in it) because no matter how bad things are they could always be worse.

The big tattoos on my arms! GRRR! Sometimes I forget they are there until I see myself in front of a mirror and get scared!

I love books! Stuff like Fight Club and Choke are great, Stardust is my favorite book ever. Lately I've been reading a lot of books about space, time and god (or the lack thereof) and sometimes I find it hard to wrap my brain around the universal scale of it all, but I find the universe to be an incredibly amazing place. I also love Harry Potter, and a number of other random science fiction and fantasy books/series.

I'm a big movie buff too. I love going to see new movies, or even going to live theater. I'll watch just about anything and find something to like about it. Stuff that is deep and meaningful tend to be my true favorites, but I really love it all.

I like music, but I'm not so passionate about any of it that I feel the need to list my favorite bands.

As far as food goes, I'm very not picky. I'm especially fond of sushi, but I'm especially fond of just about everything else too for that matter. It just depends on the mood at the time.

1. Humor.
2. Learning - I love to always be learning new things.
3. My left foot! the right one is okay too, but I like the left one better.
4. Snow Cones. Live where it is 130+ in the shade for a while and you too will learn to appreciate snow cones as much as I do.
5. Sarcasm - it gets me through the day with a smile on my face.
6. Being Evil!

Stuff that I probably shouldn't waste my time thinking about. Pondering the vastness of the universe and trying to figure out the best way to describe the beauty of a clear, starry night. Sometimes I get lost in thought, imagining fantasy worlds with knights and swords going off to adventure through deep, dark swamps where no one comes out alive. Yeah, stuff like that.

Getting off work at 9:30pm - after that I'm ready for whatever. Late night movies, hitting a bar or taking a night in with video games or a movie or two. I'm pretty adaptable and like a little variety from one week to the next. I tend to avoid loud places though and crowds make me a bit uneasy.

Gee-whiz, what haven't I said already? I should probably be doing my homework instead of trying to meet girls on the internet. I'm really an open book, I believe in honesty above all things, ask away.

Oh, and I like to sing to my cats when no one else is around.

If you have the slightest interest in a relationship with Traci and I. But, even if you aren't interested and just need someone to talk to I'm always here to listen and always open to new friends.