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44 Oakland, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:20pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a kick back, easy-going guy looking to have fun with everyone.
Whether it's checking out biking events (think bicycles, not Harley Davidson!), popular and indie flicks or just grabbing drinks, I love to check out new things in and out of my 'hood. I tested IFSP on Myers-Briggs personality test.

I am always in a state of change and find if I am not changing I am not growing as a human being. Change can be a wonderful thing.

Speaking of swift kicks in the ass I kick ass!!!!! (But I'm not *an* ass) I like to think that I'm kind and conscientious but I definitely have a mind of my own. :)

I have started to open my heart and mind letting in all the possibilities the world has to offer me and so far I have been rewarded greatly. I want more of this and am looking for people who are seeking the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm generally enjoying my life and the phase that I'm in now. There have been some big changes this past year and I looking forward to more. I'm working on my photography (I studied photojournalism) and getting more into biking and art. I love going to SFMOMA and when ever I am visiting a different city I actively seek out museums to go to.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adapting- you never know when life is going to throw you a curve ball.
Seeing things and noticing things others do not. My experience in photojournalism has taught me has to notice the world around me. I also grew up in a deaf household so noticing everything by hearing what might be around the corner helped with my observation of the world.
I'm pretty positive and supportive (or so I'm told!) and can be a good friend.

I'm also a mean cook. Not Morimoto-watch-out level, but I can hold my own. Ask me about my latkes! (Nevermind about my secret BBQ sauce recipe...!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As outgoing as I am, I actually kind of shy when I first meet people but give me five minutes and the shyness melts away like butter. I have an infectious laugh that can spread like a wild fire.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies by The Coen Brothers, Kevin Smith, Wes Anderson, Woody Allen and Ken Burns I can watch the documentary Baseball over and over again and never get sick of it.
My music taste range from anywhere from Frank Sinatra, to Daft Punk to Tom Petty and anything in between
I am not much a reader, but when I do I tend to read quirky books. My favorite author being Tim Dorsey. Other then that I enjoy the a daily newspaper.
I love listening to NPR on the weekends. My two favorites shows being Wait Wait Don't Tell Me and This American Life.
I have recently made some changes in my diet and am now eating more vegetables and fruit then I have have eaten in my life and it is great. green smoothies every morning give me that kick I need. I love juicy fruit. Plums, Pineapple and Melons. I am adventurous eater and will try almost anything. Mexican, Thai, Ethiopian. and Vietnamese tend to be my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Bodies of Water
A Good Wool Beanie
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What happens when I push this button?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to play it by ear. Who knows what might be right around the corner but I am always willing to peek.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you want to know you will just have to ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to go on a bike ride and take a taco truck tour in Oakland.
You want to check out Art Murmur in Oakland or any art in the bay area.
If you don't judge a book by it's cover but know what is inside that counts.
You are poly and your heart and mind are open to all the wonderful possibilities.
You just plain want to. Go ahead it is ok to message me. I won't bite unless you really want me too.