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I am softspoken, intellectual, and sexually dominant

Mr_Themistokles

38 / m / straight / Available

Denver, Colorado, United States

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Ethnicity Other

Height 6' 3" (1.90m).

Looking For New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)

Smokes No

Drinks Rarely

Drugs Never

Religion Buddhism but not too serious about it

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Education Graduated from masters program

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Languages English

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I'm a softspoken intellectual and I like to hurt girls. I own an art gallery and dungeon here in Denver. I'm also a poet, which means exactly what you think it means: I'm often too sensitive for my own good, easily sidetracked by ideas, and ridiculously romantic. I continue fighting for lost causes, I continue caring for people everyone has abandoned, I carry the world's weight on my shoulders, and I fume over casual racism in restaurants. I can be tremendously impractical, tremendously intellectual, tremendously joyful.

kamasushi is my slave; she's also my girlfriend. We live together, with three cats, an army of teddy bears (hers), and a vast collection of sex toys (mine). We've been together for three years. I play with other women, with her knowledge, and sometimes with her participation.

I was incapacitated for more than a year, and during that time I became an expert in many forms of machine-driven SM play. When it comes to electroplay, I'm one of the best in the country. I like to incorporate electricity from a pair of TENS units, tit-n'-clit suction, a light-and-sound machine with a hypnosis feed, a fucking machine, heat and cold and the world's best vibrators, to create intensely erotic experiences where you don't know if you want to beg me to stop or beg me to hurt you just a little bit more.

I'm one of the owners of the RACK Room Studio, a soundproof 3,000-foot art gallery and BDSM playspace. It has a St. Andrew's Cross, a spanking bench, a steel cage, a suspension stand, an inversion table, and Room Number 35.

I'm also a member of A Few Bad Men -- a group of good-looking, experienced tops in Colorado under the age of 40. We arrange kidnap scenes, girl hunts, and fantasy rape for women. You get to fight back, scream, run away, while a group of handsome men pursue you, grabbing at your breasts, while you kick and scratch like a cornered cat.

I want to create hot scenes and give amazing sensations. I'm also interested in short-term sex slaves: I keep you in a cage, naked, for three or four days, you do not speak without permission, I feed you by hand, my friends use you. You are trained and beaten and teased and used, for two or three days -- and then you return to your ordinary life.

I want to do wild and wicked things. I want to create really hot scenes with a regular play partner. If you consider yourself any of the following, that's a good thing:
  • an artist
  • a feminist
  • a poet
  • a priestess
  • a legendary lover
  • a philosopher of the body
  • an athlete of the mind
  • a goofball
  • an eccentric
  • a harem girl
  • a mermaid on land
  • a Buddhist practitioner
  • a sorceress
  • a lioness
  • a madwoman
  • an odalisque
  • a hopeless romantic
  • a force of nature
  • a Francesca seeking her Paolo
  • a dreamer
  • an anguissette
  • a post-intellectual
  • a slow drink of whiskey
  • a snake charmer
  • a fallen angel
  • a courtesan in a past life (or a future one)
  • a gypsy fortune-teller
  • night-blooming jasmine
  • a psychic
  • a devilish bonfire with wings
  • an eater of mangos
  • a Corybante
  • a cocksucking whore
  • a daredevil
  • a tragicomedian
  • a wise fool
  • Cleopatra in Act V, all fire and air
  • a compassionate person
  • a good lay
  • a lazy night and a lake full of stars
  • a scarlet woman surging winsomely through a world of black and white

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