Timing is everything, isn’t it? At one time, none of us were ready to jump into the deep end of the pool, weren’t ready to hop into a car and drive it, and didn’t know enough to perform well at our job. Yet, at some point, we all became brave enough, competent enough and experienced enough to take all of those leaps and experience something new. So, we ventured out, took that extra step or moved ahead of our former selves. I am at that point where it pertains to relationships.
I’m ready to be with someone special. I’m ready to build a lasting relationship. I’m ready to go all in. No, don’t get me wrong; I’m not here to simply find anyone. Absolutely not. I’m here to find someone special. I’m a healthy, grounded, fun, athletic, diverse, driven individual. I can occupy myself for the rest of my life with my wide array of interests, hobbies and ambitions, so I am not looking to simply be with anyone. I’m looking for someone who’s not perfect, but who’s perfect for me. I’m looking for someone to take my other season ticket to my football team (not necessarily all the time). I’m ready to have someone to hang out with in the evenings and on the weekends. I’m ready to plan nights that are fun, exciting, and romantic and ones that end with the two of us going home to spend even more time together. I’m ready to plan vacations together, plan date nights weeks in advance and think about the future. I’m ready for all of that and more. I want it! And honestly, I expect it to happen pretty quickly. Come at me hard and fast and you'll stand a good chance.
That does not necessarily mean I’m on a fast track to marriage, kids, retirement, etc. I’m still looking to have fun with that special someone. I don’t subscribe to the notion that there is a “normal”; life is different for all of us. So, I am not operating on a set schedule here. I want to have fun with that special someone and not just now, but for now and for a long, long time. Ideally, my match would be a sexy, fun, athletic, intelligent and happy woman in her 20s to early-30s. (And if you’re concerned with any age difference, think in terms of life experiences rather than simple numbers and give it shot.) She would be adventurous and active, but still with a list of TV shows she enjoys. I would love for her to be amenable to the things I like to do, but with enough attitude and confidence to persuade me to do things she likes (and that aren’t necessarily at the top of my list).
If you’ve made it this far and are still interested, here’s some basics about me: I have many varied interests. I like to do a lot of different things. But, honestly, day-to-day, I’m an ordinary guy. I wake up (slowly), get ready, and go to a good job. I listen to music in my car. I use my TV for noise, mostly (comedies, cartoons, movies, etc.). I come home and usually eat something I cooked (yes, I can cook – my tastes just need to be expanded). I then try to workout, hit the driving range, or work on a hobby of mine. Occasionally, I play a strategy game on my computer. I keep my house quite clean and tidy (but not obsessively so). On weekends, I take many road trips to see family (especially my nephew), attend live football games, and see friends. Beyond that, I’m up for just about anything. What do you have??? I have done days in the infield at a NASCAR race and I have put on a tux to go to the symphony, and I’ve been happy as a clam at both. I’ve jumped out of a perfectly good airplane, I’ve swum with dolphins and sharks, I’ve flown completely across the country on a moment’s notice, and I do have a passport. …Again, what do you have???
If you’ve read through all of this and are interested, then please, drop me a line.