I have experienced and learned enough things in my life to finally "get" it. But, that makes me very selective. What do I want? Well, I'm looking for someone who is happy, someone who knows who they are, is confident, can be just fine by themselves. I want that person who, when you put us together, we're happier together than we would be apart. I want someone to be happy with, not someone who needs me to make them happy. I'll know it when I see it and experience it; and I won't settle for less. I'm in no hurry, but when "the right one" comes along, it will be a lot of fun.
...I've also spent a lot of time "chasing" and am tired of having to do all of the work to get things started only to be disappointed. It's the 21st century ladies; your turn to let us know you're interested. (And that goes for any guy you find attractive on here, or anywhere else. Seriously, say something!)