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MsDismay

27 / F / Straight / Single

Saint Cloud, Minnesota

Her Details

Last Online
Mar 26, 2010
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I recently graduated from University with a BFA, focus painting/studio arts. Still looking for part time employment. I'm a crafter with a special fixation on knitting, woodwork, and alteration of found objects. I read, a lot, a whole lot. I write, a lot, though mostly journals.

I collect lawn gnomes and keep them in my bedroom. I carry a pink leopard print purse. Am addicted to playing grabber machines and crossword puzzles. I wear more bracelets than a modern day gypsy and generally have paint all over my clothes. I'm a hoarder, I love yard/garage sales and thrift stores and finding shiny things on the ground. I'm thrifty to a fault, I don't throw anything away that can be mended. If I don't know how to fix it I find out how and make a valiant attempt.

I'm very much a kid at heart and imagine I always will be. I do have an introspective side though I have a habit of approaching heavier subjects with an offhanded manner. Life is far too short to take too seriously. I occasionally come off as aggressive because I am not always the most shy of girls. I am not always so, just honest and forthright. Don't let me scare you off. ^.^

I'm a hardcore romantic which has lead to more heartbreak than anything else but alas,I watch a lovely thirties black and white film and fall for it all over again ;-)

I've lived in Kansas City, Missouri. LA, California. Now I'm in Minnesota. I own a lot of house slippers. From LA to Minnesota..... Every Christmas gift for three years included sox or house slippers. I'm a midwestern girl, born and raised, with a lot of the expected priorities. Family, manners, and respect.

In many ways I'm a contradiction. I wear my hair braided in pigtails and end up covered in paint and plaster one day and the next day put on the pinstripes, chains, and the big city gloss. I'm extremely changeable and enjoy the chaos of it. I consider myself a pseudo intellectual though I'm flightier than a butterfly half the time.

I am mercurial, charismatic, and eccentric

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What I’m doing with my life
I am trying to get along, that's what I'm doing. Looking for part time work and selling art. I hope to seek a MFA in the future and land a college prof. job where I can encourage and support emerging artists.

I also plan on taking Italian with the hopes of visiting Sicily in the near future.

I'm hoping to get involved with community causes. The animal shelter mostly where I just got my cat Diesel, my beautiful boy.

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I’m really good at
Music-Violin, Vocal, Piano.
Art-Acrylic, Oil, Chalk Pastel, Ink, Watercolor, Lead and Charcoal.
Literature-Poetry, Short Fiction, Children's Stories, Reading.
Dance- Belly Dancing, Jazz, Ballet, Tap, Celtic Foot
Crafts- Wood Burning, Refinishing, Knitting, Decoupage, Sculpting, Modified found objects.

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The first things people usually notice about me
I would like to think it's how I carry myself, my easy smile, or even my friendly demeanor or laugh.

Most likely, it'll be the pink leopard print purse, the mismatched sox, or whatever else to do with my wardrobe that I didn't bother to think out.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/Authors- Tanith Lee, Stephen King, Guy de Mauppasant, Shakespeare, it's actually a rather long list..... I like horror, fantasy, sci-fi, tacky romance novels, historical fiction, and cultural works of any sort.

Movies- Clockwork Orange, The Mirror Mask, Anything with a darker twist. Anything with zombies. Musicals. Any film from the thirties.

Music- A load of local L.A. bands top my list. Andrew Paul Woodworth, Violet Kiss, Ballentine, Heather Ballentine, Jeddrah. The Piper Downs. I enjoy classic punk, classic rock, oldies, classical music, some pop/hip hop. I am not a huge country fan though there are some songs I can go for.

Food- Pepperoni Pizza and anything related to it. It's my one weakness, beyond that I'm normally a bit of a health nut. Fruit/Veggies/Chicken

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The six things I could never do without
Love
Coffee
Art Supplies
A good book
The Internet
. . . .
Green.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether or not interpersonal relationships are ever worth the effort.

Whether or not actually pursuing my dream of being an artist was, well, the best idea. (Would you like fries with that? Haunts me...)

Whether or not my actions can influence what's going on around me.

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On a typical Friday night I am
At home knitting, with my cat. That's right. Young and already on that road. Actually, I prefer dancing on Thursdays. Less of a crowd and fewer cruddy bands.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't have anything in my closet. That is to say, I don't often if ever feel shame so the question is a wee little bit irrelevant.

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25-34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You have something to say. Preferably that something is devastatingly witty, moderately intelligent, or at least sincere. LoL I'm honestly looking to get to know people on a truly personal level even if it's casually personal. ;)

You should NOT message me if:
you would borrow my makeup on a regular basis
you would borrow my clothes on a regular basis
you take longer to do your hair than I do
you are vehemently opposed to hardware stores
you are opposed to thrift stores

Elsewise. Message away.

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