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45 F East Northport, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I love candlelight, cuddling by the fire with a bottle of wine, flowers, massages (giving and receiving!) all the romantic stuff. I am very playful and love to laugh and giggle and be silly. I am very active and love to stay busy. But I also love my down time relaxing on the couch with someone special.

Notice, in none of my pictures am I pouting, puckering, wrapped around a pole, posed in lingerie, back arched lying on a bed...I think those things are better saved for after the first date! ;-) LOL

I am confident, secure, self assured and self reliant...I have a job that I love and serve on several committees at work dedicated to bettering the lives of active and retired military personnel. It's extremely rewarding.

I enjoy Grey Goose and tonic on a hot summer night, the Caribbean, floating in a pool with boat drinks, Jimmy Buffett, chinese food, sleeping in a little on Sundays, and the cold side of the pillow...

I have 2 teenage kids...they are very busy and active. They have a great father and spend equal time with both of us. They are at the age where they are escaping the nest! I am normal and stable, able to maintain a happy life for myself as well as making sure they are happy, healthy and settled. I have plenty of "me" time to meet someone and enjoy an amazing relationship...

I am very down to earth, easy to please and very easy to get along with. I am definitely not a drama queen, serial dater or party girl! I do enjoy a good night on the town from time to time though. Preferably with a sweet guy on my arm!

Could you be that sweet guy??
What I’m doing with my life
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Working at an amazing and very rewarding job, raising my 2 teens (nearing the finish line!) Keeping busy and making a fun and happy life for myself (and maybe my someone special when I meet him...)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel safe and comfortable, being very easy-going and keeping conversation flowing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, and my outgoing, bubbly personality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Thai, Chinese, Mexican...Jimmy Buffett, 70's music, live bands, outdoor bars/restaurants, Law & Order, Bones, House, ID TV... Really good scary movies and memoirs...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
Gum (bad breath freaks me out!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with friends or cozy on the couch with a book or a good movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ummm...I snore...a little!
You should message me if
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You're looking for a romantic, sincere, loyal woman...a totally great catch!