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31 Freeport, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Guys........GET TO KNOW ME!! I will lose interest quickly if you deter from what your profile states. The REAL men know who they are and I would like to hear from you only! When you message me... be respectful!! You don't know me well enough to talk to me any old kind of way and I won't tolerate it! Or get cussed the hell out in Chinese! Don't play games with me!

5 ft 9, thick legs, curvaceous brickhouse type of woman. I appreciate myself inside out. Home owner, 2 cars, busy mom, have a degree in massage therapy. Currently training to be a certified yoga instructor for my bbw community. My aspiration in life is to get involved and devote my time with helping single women/mothers, victims of domestic violence and encourage people who are constantly scrutinized for their weight, appearance or sexual preference....they too are beautiful.

I enjoy the SIMPLEST things in life and getting to know me is easy. All you have to do is be YOURSELF. But if you are a womanizer or a jerk don't waste my damn time! I repeat... get to know me BEFORE you pursue me!! I looove parks especially ones with bike trails. I live on my bike lol. I am a huge foodee and looove seafood! I am someone who will offer my time to shelters when needed. I feed stray cats. I get involved in the community.

So.....Are YOU The One For Me?


You have an updated pic that I can clearly see. It's not 14 years old, No blockage...half shots.... no blankies.....and what's the deal with smurf photos?

Yes. I am Into interracial dating, and PREFER it. So do you want an attractive educated black sistah??? lol... Send me a message

Likes kids

TALLER than 5 ft 8, you are on the stocky to big build side.. broad least 200 lbs or more....a HUGE turn on to me.... I need a man who can wrestle with me and not afraid to break his bones therefore I am not into skinny, short or wimpy guys sorry!

A non-smoker...kudos if you DO drink socially

You are available at akward hours in the night or day... I am the type of woman who will show up wearing...just my heels for you...the type of woman that wants to please her man in every which way are the type to stay up late or after midnight... you enjoy parties, your sex drive is high (but not out of control) like to travel... this is VERY VERY important to me.

You are in driving distance of NYC ONLY, Independent. career driven, Have your own vehicle and your own shit!! Your vehicle compliments you and you are proud to put your girl in it. Please don't hit me up if you have a jumping car, flammable leaks, fails inspections, on fire or you are pimpin it for the night from your baby mama. You riding on a spare for months on end. I will curse you out!!

Are looking for a real long term committed relationship. You want a woman like me by your side you can show off and don't give a damn type of guy who is looking at like to hold hands and touch me in places I love to be touched that make my neck hairs stand straight. No half assed mofos or booty calls!

Are a true gentleman knows the meaning of chivalry and how to treat his lady. You can bring joy and laughter. Sending flowers is a charm. A date to Burger King is unacceptable!!

Your hygiene must be impeccable. Your clothes is on point.... you have swag, clean cut or sexy baldies by choice. If your pants is hiked up to your chest and you wear your socks past you knees do not hit me up! If you have roaches crawling through your shit and you keep them as pets please don't holla at me!

We all have responsibilities and priorities. But you must make time for US. You Have off weekends or your nights permit you to be with me. Please don't waste my time if you work 24-7.

Yes we live in today's world of sending endless text messages to one another each day and while i'm cool with that, I still like the old school way of conversing. If You don't call at least on the 2nd or third day from number exchanges, you damn skippy your ass is getting deleted! If we haven't met within a week or made any plans within a week, your messages are just either short or too damn long long and boring...I will take you out of my phone and take you for playing games. If you are sending pics of your manhood will curse you out! Don't even try it!
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to fix up my house this is my first house! Any tips is welcomed! Being a good mom to my little one. She is my motivator. Training to be Yoga Instructor and therapeutic counselor. Being successful. Successful means to achieve, to reach or go beyond your life goals or expectations. It means to try... try...try again and never give up. I always wondered what the word successful meant until one point in my life made me realize I need to start appreciating all the good I have done to where I am today. One day I hope to meet a man who can value this strong black woman for who she is.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Paying my bills on time...appreciating others from the inside out...Staying away from drama, stress, haters and assholes. Cooking, hugging...kissing... listening.. understanding....Throwing a football....Fixing things with power tools, playing playstation...dancing.....changing tires and spark plugs
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know tell me!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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big bang theory
Wynxx Club
I like Fiction novels and Romance
Hip-hop reggae and metal
I am a newsaholic...
smooth jazz r&B old school 80's music, creed, korn, metallica, static-x, prodigy, reggae, salsa, hip hop merengue the list goes on!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Just Six Things??..yea right Ill just name a FEW!!!

My Child
My Music Which Is Always Cranked Up Really Loud!
My Attitude
My Black & Decker Drill & Drill Bits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Equality & Justice For Black people
Why does my sprinkler system come on at 3 in the morning?
My Dad
Money & Shopping
Interracial Dating
My Potential Soul Mate
When is school gonna be over?
Why do some okc members still hit me up after being rejected??
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with my girls, bowling, Busting someones chops...freestyling on an instrumental..Spending time with my little one, studying, reading, roller skating, riding my bike, helping someone, Chillen at the crib watching something good on Netflix...At a club or venue.....Playing PlayStation!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I would rather play my Playstation than to go on a blind date! I enjoy rainy weather than any other climate..... getting dressed up for Halloween!
You should message me if
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You have strong interest in dating black women and big girls like can handle your liquor at parties and not on a bedtime curfew! You are a single parent (our kids are in the same age range) and want to hang out sometime.... NO BABY MAMA DRAMA!!!... have other interesting topics to talk about other than what's going on in your pants... You want to get to know a cool kids, a big kid yourself, you love to laugh, cuddle, be affectionate....Into Video games?? Send me a message!