NOTE: May be offline till Sunday, Jan 4. Meanwhile, HAPPY NEW
YEAR!
WARNING: Not for the faint of heart. I am intense and passionate.
Logged on just to explore but was lured in. My resistance to
temptation was, as usual, nil.
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I am honorable, cultured, whip-smart, loveable, and deliciously twisted
The Skinny
How Well We Know
Ethnicity White
Height 5' 6" (1.67m).
Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes No
Drinks Rarely
Drugs N/A
Religion Judaism
Sign Sagittarius and it's fun to think about
Education Graduated from masters program
Job N/A
Income Rather not say
Kids N/A
Pets Likes dogs
Languages English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly), French (Okay), Latin (Poorly)
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My Notes edit
My self-summary
What I'm doing with my life
Simplifying.
Dealing with Gordian knots sans sword. Tying new ones with silk rope and scarves.
Having fun.
Making new friends. Staying in touch and/or reconnecting with folks I already know, such as wyldchara, suculent, gooseontheloose and HaiJeff.
Dealing with Gordian knots sans sword. Tying new ones with silk rope and scarves.
Having fun.
Making new friends. Staying in touch and/or reconnecting with folks I already know, such as wyldchara, suculent, gooseontheloose and HaiJeff.
I'm really good at
Love.
Caring.
Listening.
Touch.
Smiling.
Laughing.
Accepting.
Talking. .
Learning.
Cuddling.
Connecting.
Loyalty
Knowing myself.
While I certainly have a variety of practical skills, this is not a job application, is it?
Caring.
Listening.
Touch.
Smiling.
Laughing.
Accepting.
Talking. .
Learning.
Cuddling.
Connecting.
Loyalty
Knowing myself.
While I certainly have a variety of practical skills, this is not a job application, is it?
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me
My warmth and intelligence. Of course, this varies depending on
where and how we first meet - and what I'm wearing.
My cheerful, wholesome but sexy appearance, so vanilla and not kinky, even in a leather corset.
The *last* thing noticed seems to be my aversion to chat. If you won't pay attention to something so basic, don't delude yourself about interesting me.
My cheerful, wholesome but sexy appearance, so vanilla and not kinky, even in a leather corset.
The *last* thing noticed seems to be my aversion to chat. If you won't pay attention to something so basic, don't delude yourself about interesting me.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
My favorite is "now" - what I'm reading, watching, listening to,
doing, making, or eating. My taste is not universal but is very
eclectic and always expanding. As with people, I like individual
works for what they are.
** Why don't sites ask about choices for live theater or comedy/humor or art? **
** Why don't sites ask about choices for live theater or comedy/humor or art? **
The six things I could never do without
** Integrity
** Love
** Continuing to learn
** Touch
** Freedom
** Hope
** Self-confidence
** Trust
** Intimacy
** BDSM
** Friends
** Love
** Continuing to learn
** Touch
** Freedom
** Hope
** Self-confidence
** Trust
** Intimacy
** BDSM
** Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where I put my keys and where to move.
My location is actually south of Philadelphia and very north of Baltimore, i.e. Wilmington, DE. However, I intend to relocate, once I decide just where in the Washington DC - New York metroplex.
My location is actually south of Philadelphia and very north of Baltimore, i.e. Wilmington, DE. However, I intend to relocate, once I decide just where in the Washington DC - New York metroplex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Some places you could have found me over the last several Friday
nights:
** Shul
** Chez family and/or friends [talking, playing, cooking, adventuring or just sitting]
** Traveling
** Home - Reading, surfing, tv, laundry, talking
** Theater
** Out - with friends, family, myself - doing who knows what.
** Paddles, DFP, The Playhouse, The Crucible
** Shul
** Chez family and/or friends [talking, playing, cooking, adventuring or just sitting]
** Traveling
** Home - Reading, surfing, tv, laundry, talking
** Theater
** Out - with friends, family, myself - doing who knows what.
** Paddles, DFP, The Playhouse, The Crucible
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here
how much I miss the synergy.
There's no way to say having someone with whom to share life and love would not be a wonderful bonus. However, I am really NOT on a "quest" for a Holy Grail of a relationship. It's time to spread my social wings and soar. The future remains to be experienced, not predicted. My journey is far from over.
There's no way to say having someone with whom to share life and love would not be a wonderful bonus. However, I am really NOT on a "quest" for a Holy Grail of a relationship. It's time to spread my social wings and soar. The future remains to be experienced, not predicted. My journey is far from over.
You should message me if
you are interested in exploring a friendly, honest relationship.
One step at a time.
NB: On Tuesday, 12/09/08, my right hand underwent a tear-down and rebuild of bones and tissue to repair damage from a mishealed break. This severely hinder my sending email. So, please be patient or send me a phone number and some good times to call.
Some other things to keep in mind:
** I am very Jewish; not in the sense of keeping kosher or being Orthodox, but I see the world through "Jewish eyes".
** Kink is a real, special, permanent part of my life; if you aren't kinky, please be at least kink-friendly and clueful.
** Keeping promises is very important.
** I don't see the glass as half-empty or half-full; I'm just glad there is water.
** You are MALE: single, available, unattached, divorced, etc.
If you are attached through marriage, law, engagement, living together, seeing someone or poly, feel free to contact me, as long as you are also willing to have me contact your significant other. I am not interested in being "the other woman" or a secondary.
** If you are a part of a COUPLE: please ask the female to contact me first. I'm glad to be friends.
** If you are FEMALE: If you are interested in friendship. I love playing with women but I am not bisexual.
NB: On Tuesday, 12/09/08, my right hand underwent a tear-down and rebuild of bones and tissue to repair damage from a mishealed break. This severely hinder my sending email. So, please be patient or send me a phone number and some good times to call.
Some other things to keep in mind:
** I am very Jewish; not in the sense of keeping kosher or being Orthodox, but I see the world through "Jewish eyes".
** Kink is a real, special, permanent part of my life; if you aren't kinky, please be at least kink-friendly and clueful.
** Keeping promises is very important.
** I don't see the glass as half-empty or half-full; I'm just glad there is water.
** You are MALE: single, available, unattached, divorced, etc.
If you are attached through marriage, law, engagement, living together, seeing someone or poly, feel free to contact me, as long as you are also willing to have me contact your significant other. I am not interested in being "the other woman" or a secondary.
** If you are a part of a COUPLE: please ask the female to contact me first. I'm glad to be friends.
** If you are FEMALE: If you are interested in friendship. I love playing with women but I am not bisexual.
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