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39 F Melbourne, Australia

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:33pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Intelligent, passionate, sometimes compassionate...I live in the present as much as possible. I live well, look after myself, and I'm able to tackle the tough stuff that life throws, while being well up for a good time - usually involving some live music and some good dancing. A few wines and a carry on are my favourite.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in a job I love. It took me a long time to work out what I wanted to be when I grow up, and now that I have, I am happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm very good at looking like I'm thinking really hard while I'm actually just googling vague terms.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My awesome rack!? Not really, yes really... or maybe they're just trying to read my librarian name tag.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music! Love it and live for it, would really love to meet a gig buddy and someone to rave about new discoveries with. Massive Attack, Portishead, Blur, Johnny Cash, Emmylou Harris, Bjork, Florence and the Machine, Gaslight Anthem, Cold War Kids. Kanye
Hip hop! TZU, The Herd, Urthboy, Hilltop Hoods. Arctic Monkeys, Arcade Fire. Recently Andy Bull and Broods are floating my boat. And if you are a Joelistics fan we HAVE to get together and discuss Blue Volume, that's mandatory.

Ah tv series, my hobby and pastime. Have a Netflixs account, so OITNB etc of course. The usual ...Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Parks and Rec, New Girl. Louie! If you think Louie CK is one the smartest, most insightful minds about, we will well get on.

Books, as a Librarian I constantly have something on the go, favourite authors Irvine Welsh, David Sedaris, Margaret Atwood, John Irving, Toni Morrison, Isabelle Allende, Nick Hornby, Marian Keyes. Favourite books .. tricky.. Lovely Bones, High Fidelity, What I Loved, Lord of the Rings, Poisonwood Bible. The Road. Never Let Me Go. Recently starting reading more non-fiction and biographies, Jon Ronson and Caitlin Moran is my idol!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Who needs six? That's just greedy

To quote the Hoods:
"The more I want, then the less I'm free
So when I see every thing I got
That's enough for me, that's enough for me, that's enough for me
It's all I need"

At a push:

Good people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music...And also nothing at all, have learnt how to turn that ole' interior monologue off.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends, if I'm working Saturday probably taking it easy, as it's far too long a day with a hangover. If not working, whatever comes my way. Usually eating something delicious, then heading towards the good music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once stood, and waited, annoyed and impatient for my electric toothbrush to charge. Until it was pointed out to me that I could just use it, you know, like a toothbrush. What annoys me most about this is it that SOMEONE ELSE had to point it out to me. And I have three degrees.
You should message me if
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You think we have a few things in common, think Abbott is a massive fuckhead. I wanted to write he is a Dick, but that gives penises a bad name.

And I'm not looking for something casual. I like the idea of someone who also likes the idea of coming home to that someone special... to share a conversation, a meal, a wine, and some love.