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MsShutterbug

32 / F / Bisexual / Available

Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 8:29am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I will not answer messages if your profile isn't filled out and if you do not have pictures up.

First and foremost, I'm an artist. Specifically, I'm a photographer. It's my passion, and plays a big part in what I'm doing and who I am. You don't have to be an artist, but an appreciation for creativity is a big plus. I love to read, and hope you do too. There is nothing like loosing a few days to the written word. I'm eclectic in style and musical tastes. I try to get outside as much as possible and spend a good amount of my time gardening, swimming, and poking around in nature. I love camping at the beach. I'm interested in meeting new people and traveling. If we hit it off and you promise not to be a serial killer I'm open to traveling to meet you.

I have a very bold personality (which sometimes gets me into trouble) that I balance with unfeigned consideration and dedication to those I'm close to. I love helping and teaching people. I am honest and blunt, but still know when something should be left unsaid.

Somethings worth knowing about me:

I identify as Poly or Polyamorous.
I'm submissive.
I am in a d/s relationship. It's a long distance situation so I am still looking to date.
I don't have children, and don't want them.
I really don't care for the color red.
I'm a feminist, but feel just as passionately for the under acknowledged issues men are facing.
I'm sex positive and you should be too.
I'm an ENFJ on Myers-Briggs, and it is pretty spot on.
When I was a kid I use to hop trains, and I raised a pigeon that I taught to fly.
What I’m doing with my life
This is a loaded question for me. I knew what I was doing with my life, but recently I've been reevaluating what I really want to do. I have my associates in photography. I have recently been getting rid of most of my possessions. The less I own the less that owns or defines me. I want to be what defines me. I don't like being tied down to one idea or goal for my life. I want to become as close to fluid. I want to travel and experience the world. I have a few crazy ideas of how to do this. No matter what I won't be living in this area after the end of summer 2014.

Check out some of my work here (contains nudity, NSFW). Also if you like what you see and think you'd like to model for me I am always looking to work with new people. Send me a message.

http://heatherclauserphotography.blogspot.com/
I’m really good at
Photography, giving advice, talking, listening, and going with the flow. I am also an excellent cook, and worked as a chef for years.
The first things people usually notice about me
My red hair, and that I have a vibrant personality to match. I tend to be very outgoing, friendly, and relaxed in social situations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy reading and have a large variety of authors that I love. Some of them are Jim Butcher, J. R. R. Tolkien, Max Brooks, David Sedaris, Tom Robbins, Chuck Palahniuk, Neil Gaiman, Caitlín R. Kiernan, Poppy Z. Brite, Douglas Adams, and George R. R. Martin. I give anything a read once though.

I don't have cable and watch most of my stuff online. Who needs commercials? Love documentaries, and movies. Horror is my favorite genre, but my tastes really vary. T.V shows: Breaking Bad, Girls, Firefly, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Law and Order, DOCTOR WHO, Mad Men, Nurse Jackie, Scrubs, SOA, True Blood, Futurama, South Park, and my guilty pleasure Grey's Anatomy.

Being a chef has given me a passion for food. There's not much I won't taste, and I enjoy most foods. Love most asian cuisine, and I can grill a fantastic steak. I try to eat pretty healthy. I buy local whenever I can and shop more at the farmers market then the grocery store.

Music: 
The Cure
, The Doors, 
The Avett Brothers, 
After Forever, Red Hot Chili Peppers, 
MGMT, 
Aerosmith, 
Porcupine Tree, 

Adele, Coldplay, Depeche Mode
, Bauhaus,
 Eminem
, Epiphany Project, 
The Offspring, 
Tom Petty, 
Joan Osborne, 
Johhny Cash, 
Nightwish, 
Orgy, 
Pink Floyd, Queen, 
The Sisters of Mercy, 
Soul Asylum
, System of a Down, 
The 69 Eyes, 
Theatre of Tragedy, 
They Might Be Giants
, Tori Amos
, Kevin Neidig
, Voxology, Liv Kristine, Live, Mumford and Sons, the list goes on.
The six things I could never do without
-Camera
-Art
-Naps
-Computer
-Good conversation
-Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Zombie apocalypses, and blowing this popsicle stand.
On a typical Friday night I am
Ha ha, at work. I'm a server part time so I don't have Friday or Saturday nights off. When I do get a night off, I'm either out with friends, working on my art, cooking a great meal, or just relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have depression. It's not something I'm ashamed of, and it doesn't mean I'm not an upbeat or happy person. I just have to work a little harder at it. It's also something that is manageable for me and treated. If this bothers you, I might not be up your alley.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
-If you think we could add to one another's life.
-You enjoy good conversation.
-You are generally a positive person, and love to laugh.
-You're comfortable with me seeing other people and vice versa.
-You want to go on an adventure with me.
-You checked out my photography and think you'd like to model for me.
-Or just make up a reason and send me a message.

Here are a few reasons to not message me:

-If you have no pictures or your profile isn't filled out.
-If you have children, or want children. I'm not looking for anything longterm with someone who has children. I'm not looking to be a mom on any level. If it's something more casual that's a different story.
-If you don't like/can't be around cats.