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43 • Tacoma, WA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–62
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 14
- Asian, White
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Not at all
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Has cats
I also am a hobbyist photographer and am just loving my new kit. I've taken an interest in street photography and need to find more time out of my weekly schedule to do that.
I like to draw though must admit I am out of practice so lately have been limiting any drawing to digital sketches using a tablet in conjunction with other visual projects.
As a person I am a shy extrovert if that makes any sense to anyone. I stand for gender equality and empowerment. I believe that the world would be better off if it could re-evaluate its notions of gender roles. I love people who prove themselves to be caring and kind to others and who also embrace diversity in all its forms.
Oh an most importantly, I am a proud geek grrrl.
Honestly, if I pointed to anything physical then would that make its way prominently in a pickup line? Probably.
If I were to pick one physical feature then it would be my eyes as they get the most comment. I also get from people that I look much younger than I am.
Outside of the physical, most say I am intelligent and have a lot of empathy.
Sci-fi and fantasy novels primarily. Jim Butcher, Larry Niven, and David Brin are favorite authors. Currently reading the Meredith Gentry novels by Laurel K. Hamilton.
I like many genres but especially like Sci Fi, Fantasy, Romantic Comedies and Anime. Slasher flicks and horror are not for me.
Hmm... Foo Fighters, Tristan Prettyman, Evanescence, Tokio Hotel, Loreena McKennitt, Three Days Grace, Three Doors Down, Pearl Jam, AFI, Death Cab for Cutie, Hootie & the Blowfish, Smashing Pumpkins, Soundgarden, Blink 182, Gaslight Anthem, Coldplay, Paramore, Regina Spektor, Seven Mary Three, The Airborne Toxic Event, Sara Bareilles, Silversun Pickups, Greenday, Stone Temple Pilots, Audioslave, the Cranberries, B-52's, etc... Yes alternative is a mainstay, but yes, I am eclectic.
I have an open mind about trying new foods. My favorites, however, are Thai food and seafood. I do not like pizza or many other melted cheese dishes and will not willingly eat bell peppers.
Have I lost you yet?
In short, if you think my sexuality means unlimited access then you've already begun to misunderstand me before even trying.
I'm going to say up front so as to not waste your time or mine in idle banter. I am not straight. At all. So if you are at all squeamish about seeing people of various genders being something other than in a hetero relationship, then you probably won't get along with me or the people I tend to have as friends. I am also proud of the fact that I supported marriage equality in my state. If you have a problem with that then, again, you won't get along with me.
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