The best way to get to know me is to simply talk to me, ask questions and learn for yourself. Filling something out doesnt always convey the right message or emotion or offer up enough information. So if youre interested.. just ask! I can say whatever i want, and you could still find me absolutely repulsive because you take it completely out of context, or dont understand my upfront, straight forward way of talking/typing or my sarcasm. So ask me. Get to know me..and most of all, dont judge a book by its cover. You havent walked a day in my shoes, and you do not know what hurdles I have overcome.. learn to appreciate a person for all of their different facets!
First and foremost, I am a chubby girl.. if you cant handle that, dont like it, think it would bother you, or cant appreciate it, please do yourself and me a favor and move along.
I have not always been overweight or chubby/chunky, and i have the potential to lose weight and am working on it. Life happens.. it gets to you.. there are circumstances that cause us to take a toll on our bodies emotionally, *I* can overcome it, and will, but if you have an ugly personality..or cant see beauty where it lies, no matter the form it comes in.. than you have bigger problems than me.
I have a child too.. A special needs child. I am not looking for a baby daddy.. I do not have one, nor do i need one. 9 times out of 10 people in life will disappoint you. So I have learned to take care of things, by myself. Its not to say that i wouldnt appreciate a person who is interested in sharing things in life with my son and i, but i am not looking for someone to take care of me either. Ive made it this far on my own.. believe me, i can go much further.
The worst things in life are not to be alone, but to be with someone and feel completely alone, and i will NEVER be put in a situation like that again.

I am a second year college student studying for my degree in biology to further my degree in Mortuary Science and Embalming. I work and study full time as well as single handedly raise my eight year old, autistic son. It is a lot of work to handle for one person.. I challenge anyone to tell me otherwise.

a lot of things? No really... What am I supposed to say? That I'm bad at things? Being a mom, Being a loving pet owner.. hmmm.. being sarcastic to handle tough situations, cooking...uhmm...Playing world of warcraft! :flexes:

Most people immediately think im angry, I guess Its just my German/Irish Heritage, or because I am very blunt. I have Asperger's Syndrome, like my son, and I am very literal, and honest and Most people dont understand my brand of straight forwardness or humor. Alot of people like my tattoos, piercings or my eyes. (yes, those are piercings on my face, not moles.) Some people think I'm stand-offish. And I am generally. Its not necessarily that im not interested, its that I am sizing you up. I'm single for a good reason and you'll have to be pretty amazing to change that.

WAAAAAY too many of all of the above to just fill in here. I read and watch movies and listen to a wide variety of music so if you want to know if I enjoy something that you do. Ask. Love Stephen King books, the hunger games, the host, yes I did read twilight and enjoyed it. Harry Potter (liked it so much my cat is named Sirius Black!) No I haven't read 50 shades if grey though. Not interested in that one. I love indie music. Dance and pop. 80s music and shows. Metal. Rock. You name it. Some of my all time favorite tv shows are Dr. Who. Eureka. Dexter. The Office. Big Bang Theory. Breaking Bad. Arrested Development. The walking dead. Being human. ( uk version) huge fan of British shows in general. Foods.. i love greek and indian cuisine. And can always go for some good Mexican as well, or chinese! but please dont tell my cat!

My son and my cat. And honesty. Otherwise im pretty fairly content.

School, life, and various other things I like to pick my brain with! I love to have pointless but deep conversations and debates with others. Theological or philosophical in nature. Lets talk about space or the existence of aliens or problems in the Gaza Strip! Just talk! And do so intelligently!

Probably hanging with my kiddo or playing world of warcraft.. Yeah.. im one of THOSE dorks. I dont like to go bar hopping or clubbing, its really just not my scene. And im truly not one for parties. I am a bit secluded and a bit of a homebody. But usually if someone can get me out I have a good time...im not such a shut in that i stand there like a weirdo... or do i?

Im not. Hmmm no lets see. .. I do listen to Justin bieber. My sons a big fan. And lady gaga. He loves her too. I AM a crazy cat lady, but i only own 1 cat so be thankful. But hes as spoiled as my son!

You are interested in making a new friend and seeing if anything possibly develops. I am not wanting to rush into anything right now so I would prefer to just talk to people via the net for a while before I even agree to meet.