Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The best way to get to know me is to simply talk to me, ask
questions and learn for yourself. Filling something out doesnt
always convey the right message or emotion or offer up enough
information. So if youre interested.. just ask! I can say whatever
i want, and you could still find me absolutely repulsive because
you take it completely out of context, or dont understand my
upfront, straight forward way of talking/typing or my sarcasm. So
ask me. Get to know me..and most of all, dont judge a book by its
cover. You havent walked a day in my shoes, and you do not know
what hurdles I have overcome.. learn to appreciate a person for all
of their different facets!
First and foremost, I am a chubby girl.. if you cant handle that,
dont like it, think it would bother you, or cant appreciate it,
please do yourself and me a favor and move along.
I have not always been overweight or chubby/chunky, and i have the
potential to lose weight and am working on it. Life happens.. it
gets to you.. there are circumstances that cause us to take a toll
on our bodies emotionally, *I* can overcome it, and will, but if
you have an ugly personality..or cant see beauty where it lies, no
matter the form it comes in.. than you have bigger problems than
I have a child too.. A special needs child. I am not looking for a
baby daddy.. I do not have one, nor do i need one. 9 times out of
10 people in life will disappoint you. So I have learned to take
care of things, by myself. Its not to say that i wouldnt appreciate
a person who is interested in sharing things in life with my son
and i, but i am not looking for someone to take care of me either.
Ive made it this far on my own.. believe me, i can go much
The worst things in life are not to be alone, but to be with
someone and feel completely alone, and i will NEVER be put in a
situation like that again.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a second year college student studying for my degree in
biology to further my degree in Mortuary Science and Embalming. I
work and study full time as well as single handedly raise my eight
year old, autistic son. It is a lot of work to handle for one
person.. I challenge anyone to tell me otherwise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a lot of things? No really... What am I supposed to say? That I'm
bad at things? Being a mom, Being a loving pet owner.. hmmm.. being
sarcastic to handle tough situations, cooking...uhmm...Playing
world of warcraft! :flexes:
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most people immediately think im angry, I guess Its just my
German/Irish Heritage, or because I am very blunt. I have
Asperger's Syndrome, like my son, and I am very literal, and honest
and Most people dont understand my brand of straight forwardness or
humor. Alot of people like my tattoos, piercings or my eyes. (yes,
those are piercings on my face, not moles.) Some people think I'm
stand-offish. And I am generally. Its not necessarily that im not
interested, its that I am sizing you up. I'm single for a good
reason and you'll have to be pretty amazing to change that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
WAAAAAY too many of all of the above to just fill in here. I read
and watch movies and listen to a wide variety of music so if you
want to know if I enjoy something that you do. Ask. Love Stephen
King books, the hunger games, the host, yes I did read twilight and
enjoyed it. Harry Potter (liked it so much my cat is named Sirius
Black!) No I haven't read 50 shades if grey though. Not interested
in that one. I love indie music. Dance and pop. 80s music and
shows. Metal. Rock. You name it. Some of my all time favorite tv
shows are Dr. Who. Eureka. Dexter. The Office. Big Bang Theory.
Breaking Bad. Arrested Development. The walking dead. Being human.
( uk version) huge fan of British shows in general. Foods.. i love
greek and indian cuisine. And can always go for some good Mexican
as well, or chinese! but please dont tell my cat!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son and my cats add puppy, And honesty. Otherwise im pretty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, and various other things I like to pick my brain with! I love
to have pointless but deep conversations and debates with others.
Theological or philosophical in nature. Lets talk about space or
the existence of aliens or problems in the Gaza Strip! Just talk!
And do so intelligently!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably hanging with my kiddo or playing world of warcraft..
Yeah.. im one of THOSE dorks. I dont like to go bar hopping or
clubbing, its really just not my scene. And im truly not one for
parties. I am a bit secluded and a bit of a homebody. But usually
if someone can get me out I have a good time...im not such a shut
in that i stand there like a weirdo... or do i?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im not. Hmmm no lets see. .. I do listen to Justin bieber. My sons
a big fan. And lady gaga. He loves her too. I AM a crazy cat lady,
but i only own 2 cats so be thankful. But their as spoiled as my
son! I also have a diva Chihuahua.
You should message me if
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You are interested in making a new friend and seeing if anything
possibly develops. I am not wanting to rush into anything right now
so I would prefer to just talk to people via the net for a while
before I even agree to meet.
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