First and foremost, I am a chubby girl.. if you cant handle that, dont like it, think it would bother you, or cant appreciate it, please do yourself and me a favor and move along.
I have not always been overweight or chubby/chunky, and i have the potential to lose weight and am working on it. Life happens.. it gets to you.. there are circumstances that cause us to take a toll on our bodies emotionally, *I* can overcome it, and will, but if you have an ugly personality..or cant see beauty where it lies, no matter the form it comes in.. than you have bigger problems than me.
I have a child too.. A special needs child. I am not looking for a baby daddy.. I do not have one, nor do i need one. 9 times out of 10 people in life will disappoint you. So I have learned to take care of things, by myself. Its not to say that i wouldnt appreciate a person who is interested in sharing things in life with my son and i, but i am not looking for someone to take care of me either. Ive made it this far on my own.. believe me, i can go much further.
The worst things in life are not to be alone, but to be with someone and feel completely alone, and i will NEVER be put in a situation like that again.