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65 F San Mateo, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:24pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a pretty, warm and affectionate woman who is also highly intelligent, articulate, passionate and intense.

My interests are many and varied, including music -- playing, singing, dancing, or listening to an eclectic mix; food -- cooking and sharing an intimate dinner at home or exploring a great restaurant; outdoor activities -- hiking to the top of a hill with my canine companion, or gazing into a seaside tidepool; exploration -- revisiting places I've enjoyed before, or discovering a locale that's new and interesting; entertainment -- attending a live music, theater or dance performance, or catching a film at the local cinema; and relaxing at home -- cuddling up to watch a movie, spending a weekend morning in bed doing crossword or sudoku puzzles, or sipping cognac from a snifter in front of a roaring fire. But everything is fun with the right companion....

I am looking for a best friend, loving partner and life companion. My ideal match is someone who already shares at least some of my interests, but also wants to explore mine, show me his, and try new things together. He is emotionally mature, financially solvent, intelligent and articulate, and has high integrity. He is neither perfect nor seeking perfection in a partner, and has learned the value of forgiveness and unconditional love. Romantic and affectionate, he is ready to connect with a woman as best friends and lovers. Together we will create a committed, monogamous relationship based on the kind of open communication, trust, and mutual support that will allow us to grow, both as individuals and partners. We will share a certain chemistry that attracts and binds us to one another -- physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually -- even when the going gets rough.
What I’m doing with my life
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After having resigned from my decade-long job as a non-profit administrator and taking a sabbatical, I have been working at various administrative and communications projects and short-term contracts while trying to figure out what this next part of my life will look like. I hold various leadership roles at my spiritual community, a liberal / progressive denomination bound together by a covenant of relationship rather than belief. I also spend time working on my house (a perennial fixer-upper), exploring the great outdoors with my canine companion, and enjoying various leisure pursuits (such as learning to play the ukulele). I now have lots of time to play with a loving companion, which I'd much rather be doing than sitting here typing answers on OKC!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
just about anything I set my mind to do!
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my intelligence and my youthful energy level and appearance. But when we meet, perhaps you can tell me what YOU first notice....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most of my reading is non-fiction, usually because I'm trying to learn more about something that's currently important to me. I see most movies at home on DVD; I especially like heart-centered ("chick") flicks, but a good movie is good movie in ANY genre. I'm an equal-opportunity music lover and maker. And I love all kinds of foods and various cuisines -- especially things that are spicy and unusual; I'm quite competent in the kitchen, and enjoy cooking up something special with a friend or lover.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and lovers -- having people in my life whom I love and appreciate, and who feel the same way about me.
Meaningful work -- having places to apply my skills and energy where I feel challenged and can make a contribution.
Food and water -- having enough of both so my needs are met and I am able to maintain good health.
Shelter -- having a place to live that supports my needs ... physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Exercise -- having challenging opportunities to move and stretch that enable me to keep my body and mind in good shape.
Community -- being part of an extended family of like-minded people, working together to transform ourselves and the world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Meaningful work and life purpose -- the relationship between the two, and finding ways to use my one wild and precious life to make useful contributions.
Love and relationships -- sharing closely with friends, lovers, community.
Money -- what it means, how to manage it, how much is "enough," and how to make it last for the duration.
Health -- how to stay healthy, especially as one grows older.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with friends, at home or out -- cooking/eating dinner, watching a movie, listening to or making music, talking and sharing;
or perhaps home alone doing any/all of the above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Anything I share here would no longer be private. Private things are best shared privately, between trusted friends.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 58–72
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you are an intelligent, articulate, progressive-thinking man who is close to me in both age and geography, and you are sincerely seeking a deep, long-lasting connection.