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69 San Mateo, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 59–75
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 26
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am a warm and affectionate woman who is also intelligent, articulate, passionate, and intense.

My interests include music -- playing, singing, dancing, or listening to an eclectic mix; food -- cooking and sharing intimate dinners at home, or enjoying an occasional dining-out experience; outdoor activities -- hiking to the top of a hill with my canine companion, or gazing into a seaside tidepool; exploration -- revisiting places I've enjoyed before, or discovering the new and interesting; entertainment -- attending a live performance, or catching a film at the local cinema; and relaxing at home -- cuddling up to watch a movie, spending a weekend morning in bed, or sipping cognac in front of a hearth fire. But any activity can be fun, and everything is more enjoyable with the right companion....

I seek a best friend, loving partner, and life companion. My ideal match is someone who already shares some of my interests, but also wants to show me his and try new adventures together. He is emotionally mature, financially solvent, intelligent and articulate, and has high integrity. He knows from experience that a great relationship requires communication, cooperation, and concession. He is neither perfect nor seeking perfection, and has learned the value of forgiveness and unconditional love. Romantic and affectionate, he is ready to connect once again with a woman as best friends and lovers.

Together we will create a committed relationship based on the kind of trust and mutual support that will allow us to thrive, both as individuals and partners. We will share a certain chemistry that attracts and binds us to one another -- emotionally, physically, intellectually, and spiritually -- even when the going gets rough.
What I’m doing with my life
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I resigned from a long-term position as a non-profit administrator a couple of years ago, and have since been engaged in a variety of pursuits that match my interests. Currently I am tutoring children one-on-one, sharpening my software skills at the Adult School, and learning to play ukulele. I am involved with my spiritual community, a liberal / progressive denomination bound together by a covenant of relationship rather than belief. I also spend time maintaining and improving my house (a perennial fixer-upper) and going on outdoor adventures with my canine companion. I have lots of time to share anything and everything with a loving companion, which I'd much rather be doing than sitting here typing responses on OKC!
I’m really good at
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just about anything I set my mind to do!
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my agile mind, high energy level, and youthful appearance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most of my reading is non-fiction, usually because I'm trying to learn more about something that's currently important to me. I see most movies at home on DVD; I especially like heart-centered movies (AKA "chick flicks"), but a good movie is a good movie in ANY genre. I'm an equal-opportunity music-lover and -maker. And I love all kinds of foods and various cuisines -- especially things that are spicy and unusual; I'm quite competent in the kitchen, and enjoy cooking up something special with a friend / lover.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and lovers -- having people in my life whom I love and appreciate, and who feel the same way about me.
Meaningful work -- having places to apply my skills and energy where I feel challenged and can make a contribution.
Food and water -- having enough of both so my needs are met and I am able to maintain good health.
Shelter -- having a place to live that supports my needs ... physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Exercise -- having opportunities to move and stretch that enable me to keep my body and mind in good shape.
Community -- being part of an extended "family" of like-minded folks, working together to transform ourselves and the world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Meaningful work / life purpose -- how to use my one wild-and-precious life to contribute to the world.
Love -- how to nurture and grow my relationships with friends, lovers, community.
Money -- how to attract it, manage it, and make it last for the duration.
Health -- how to stay healthy, especially as one grows older.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with friends, at home or out -- cooking/eating dinner, watching a movie, listening to or making music, talking and sharing;
or perhaps home alone watching a DVD or working on a project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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isn't something I would share in this venue. Private things are best shared privately, between trusted partners.
You should message me if
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you are an intelligent, articulate, progressive-thinking man who is close to me in both age and geography; you are seeking a deep, long-lasting connection; and you feel we might enjoy each other's company.