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53 Quincy, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 48-56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Oct 25
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity but it’s not important
High school
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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I would rather have eyes that cannot see; ears that cannot hear; lips that cannot speak, than a heart that cannot love.

I believe you learn most about a person by how they treat children, the elderly and their pets.

I like quiet times, cuddling on the couch as well as walks in the park or going someplace interesting where I can shoot some photos. I love the water and can often be found at the pool in my apartment complex. Not laying out trying to get that great tan....actually swimming! My father was in the Navy so we were always living on the coast somewhere, and Hawaii the last four years before his retirement, which brought me to the mid-west.

I love to be on my computer, editing photos or working on the websites I have created. No matter how many times I change the look or content on a page, I always think it can be better. Guess that makes me a little bit of a perfectionist.

I'm not a fan of big crowds. I don't like going to stadiums, but if you want to have a guys day at a game, go for it....I will be just fine doing some shopping or browsing antique malls. I don't have a large circle of friends, a couple really good friends, but I was one of those women that was so busy raising my children and taking care of my ex, I just lost contact with my friends. I got hit with empty nest syndrome and an ex who liked the women he worked with just a little too much. After the divorce, and kids away at college or making a life of their own, I find I have a lot of time on my hands. Looking forward to meeting someone to laugh with, have coffee with on Sunday morning and just share things with. I like the word Schnukums"....something about texting someone "good morning schnukums" is just fun!

Being up front and honest, I am struggling with a muscle disorder that causes me to have to take Prednisone. Nothing debilitating, fatal or catching; I am not confined to a wheelchair, use a cane or walker. However, good old Prednisone tends to make a person "puffy" and I have the traditional "moon face" associated with it. I have been on the meds for about 18 months which is a long time for Prednisone use, and unfortunately gained....don't faint....70 pounds. I have never weighed this much in my entire life and I am very self conscious of it.The doc promises the weight and puffiness will go away once I am off it however; it doesn't help that I believe Ice Cream should be the foundation of the food pyramid. lol I do not need anyone to be my nurse, just someone who is understanding and is willing to actually recognize who I am on the inside.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking it one day at a time right now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I enjoy photography however, I wouldn't say I am "really good" at it. Just a hobby.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Enjoyed the Hunger Games. Love to read murder mystery, suspense...Cussler, Wambaugh, McBain. I don't mind horror films as long as I have a pillow to hide behind when it gets bad. lol
I also enjoy sci-fi, thriller, fantasy, crime. Favorite food....Italian and Mexican. I do not like Sushi at all, but, I could eat chicken wings any way they are fixed. TV - I am hooked on Blue Bloods. I have Netflix so had a marathon last winter and was disappointed that they hadn't uploaded more seasons. I do not like reality TV, but will catch an episode of The Voice or Idol just to see what's going on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell Phone
Sweet Tea.
Ice Cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the next chapter in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, either watching a movie or having friends over.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am bipolar...(controlled with medication.) And as soon as I reveal it people assume I am going to go all psycho and treat me like I am certifiable.