I can wear my feelings on my sleeve.
I am looking for that "it " factor.
Someone that is comfortable in their own skin.
You be yourself.
That being said, I want the "it" factor, not the "dick" factor.
"I, with a deeper instinct, choose a someone who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.”