I'm a student, father to an angel and happy husband to a goddess. My WIFE 'embersouL' and I are both bi ~ open/poly friendly (i'm aka: heteroflexible) and have been together for 8 years. She is and has been a nurse, burlesque and fire dancer, BDSM ~ swinger and ballet teacher as well as an all round award winning badass mom. For the past two years we've been focusing on each other and our daughter and are feeling a little more ready to explore with others. She has a lover and I'm open to sultry playfulness especially dancing.
I originally joined okcupid to find like minded flirtation-ships, sexy play partners and to explore new people separately and/or together. I don't mind being a third or gender bending it. ;)
Since I've joined I'm just fascinated with new people.
I've traveled a chunk and made it around this earthly block, mostly by motorbike. Lived and taught English in Thailand and Taiwan. Dig adventure. I'd much rather go explore temples than lay on a beach, but make time for both.
I find my highest joy through my body movement. Creative articulation through movement inspires me. Dancing is how I pray, cast spells and bring my creative light into the world.
I'm an apocaloptomist ~ The system is rigged and may eventually collapse .. or not.. AND somehow it will all work out anyway. I plan on being part of the solution instead of getting eaten by zombies. If it weren't for nuclear, I'd consider antidisestablishmentarianism, but because of nuclear we have to work with what we have.. even if it sucks. That being said.. our system sucks and we need a new one. I'm open to your politics if your open to mine.
I dream about a gallery showing of all the things I've created from paintings and photos to a lifetime masterpiece that I'm on a mission to manifest.O ..which is part book, part arT, part science project, part re-frame of an archeological story within the mythology of humanity and passing gift to my daughter. It's a tale of it's own.
I'm an open person and figure it only helps those who know what they are looking for.
I'm a person of continual discovery and growth. I have lots of stories and would love to hear yours.
I'm community minded person and could totally live in community housing however my wife is the opposite so we don't. I'm a city boy, she's a country.ish girl. I love the buzz of people, ideas and good easy conversation.
I'm probably the only geek that loves a good game of D&D, but don't play anymore or computer games. I'm too busy being a real life father/wizard/husband/student. Don't get me wrong computer games are awesome, but talking about your level 56 gunner with new 'special' weapons makes me want to get creative, break out the body paint and roll around with the moon.
Other things i dig: firedancing ~ diving ~ motorcycling ~ running ~ traveling ~ alchemy ~ reading ~ thinking a lot ~ dreaming ~ meditating ~ more dancing ~ playing with blindfolds ~ chess ~ rpg's (not computer games) ~ cursive writing ~ spontaneous moments of singing and song (i sing a lot) ~ drumming ~ hiking ~ I like spiraling with my body ~ thinking more ~
..so there.. consider myself pitched ; )