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40 Edmonds, WA Man


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  • Ages 18–99
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:24am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a body poet, philosopher and shooting star of creativity who likes diving into innovative projects, community, dancing ecstatically, contact improvisation and playfulness. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and hug a lot.

A long term Seattlite, student, father to an angel and happy husband to a goddess. My wife 'embersoul' and I are both bi ~ open/poly (heteroflexible w/ queer twist) and have been together for 9 years. She's been a nurse, burlesque and fire dancer, BDSM ~ swinger and ballet teacher as well as an all round award winning badass mom. For the past few years we've been focused on each other and have been making more time to enjoy others like the pre-parenthood days.

Originally I joined OKC to find like minded flirtation-ships and sexy partners, however since joining my interest has widened with pure curiosity and fascination for new people. You are all so beautiful and the facets of humanness amaze me!

I've traveled a chunk and made it around this earthly block, mostly by motorbike, diving in Thailand, camping in Transylvania, camel trek in the Sahara. Lived and taught English in Thailand and Taiwan. I dig adventure and would much rather explore temples than lay on a beach, but make time for both.

My highest joy comes through body movement. Creative articulation through movement inspires me. Dance and soul song are my prayer and brings my creative light into the world.

In ten years I'll have a gallery showing with all of my creations from paintings and photos to a lifetime masterpiece that I'm on a mission to manifest.O ..which is part book, part arT, science project and re-frame of an archeological story within the mythology of humanity and passing gift to my daughter. It's a tale of it's own.

The buzz of people, ideas and good easy conversation inspire me. I love continual discovery and growth with lots of stories to share and would love to hear yours.

I can appreciate an epic role playing game, though hardly play rpg's or computer games anymore.. too busy being a real life father/wizard/husband/student/lover. Computer games are awesome and I enjoy playing, but talking about your level 56 gunner with new 'special' weapons makes me want to get creative, break out the body paint and roll around with the moon.

I'm an apocaloptomist ~ The system is rigged and may eventually collapse .. or not.. somehow it will all work out. I plan on being part of the solution instead of getting eaten by zombies. If it weren't for nuclear, I'd consider antidisestablishmentarianism, but because of nuclear we have to work with what we have.. even if it sucks. That being said.. our system sucks and we need a new one. I'm open to your politics if you're open to mine.

Other things I dig: firedancing ~ diving ~ motorcycling ~ running ~ traveling ~ alchemy ~ reading ~ thinking a lot ~ dreaming ~ meditating ~ more dancing ~ playing with blindfolds ~ chess ~ rpg's ~ cursive writing ~ a bowl of yummy green goodness ~ jump rope ~ spontaneous moments of singing ~ drumming ~ hiking ~ and spiraling with my body ~ there.. consider myself pitched ; )
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being me, a dad, a husband, a creative mover, dreamer, journaler and artistic creative type. I'm a NanoEngineering student working on a fine blend of Archeology, Nanotechnology, Movement exploration, Fusion research and silly inventions.

Working in a lab developing curriculum for a Nanotechnology program based on a lithography system I lasered together and am using to build a cloaking device -->SRR array.

Facilitating this crazy fun non-sexual blindfolded contact improvisational ecstatic dance --> Wombology: Blindfolded Movement Exploration.. it's what it sounds like and we roll around playfully in a squishy multi-zoned tactile dance space the 1st Saturday of each month at Yogalife Studio in Greenlake ~ 7pm - 10pm. You don't have to be experienced as we keep it slow and low. I've held these in Seattle, Portland and Oakland, so if you're adventurous and like trying new things you should come check this out, it will blow your mind!

I've started a book on the historic use of blindfolds in everything from ancient rituals, neo-tantra, kink, sensory experimentation, martial arts and somatic philosophy ramblings about brain chemistry and neural development.

Also working on an invention which is a modern version of the 1870's Acoustic Turbine with microfusion fueled pulsed plasma thrust. It's experimental and I hope it works.. if it doesn't.. make badass art out of it and take it to burning man.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
~ Creative play and making a better mousetrap.
~ Being silly with my daughter.
~ Smelling good
~ Decorating and setting altar space.
~ Lighting and changing it if it needs it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blue eyes and a big heart ~ dress casually nice with a tribal twist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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~ Nicomachean Ethics (Aristotle), Robert Anton Wilson, Tolkien, Gibson, Arther C. Clark, Anne Rice, Gaiman, Douglas Adams, Hands of Light, Tibetan Book of Living and Dying and a host of ancient spiritual manuscripts about old magic and ritual: Egyptian Book of the Dead, Bible, Linga Purana - Indian Mythology, The Evil Eye - the classic account of an ancient superstition.

Between a toddler, inventions and text books there hasn't been much time for leisure reading or movies of late.. I miss both though and have a reading cue: A Picture of Dorian Grey (A friend is sending his copy from Amsterdam!), The Doors of Perception, Ulysses.

Avatar ~ Air Bender = Cartoon fav, Dragon Ball Z, Ghost in the Shell, Hayao Miyazaki, Brazil, Catch 22, Pan's Labyrinth, Burton, Gilliam - Dark, beautiful and twisted.

As for TV shows ~ Continuum, Louis C.K., Alias, Orange is the New Black, Breaking Bad, Penny Dreadful, Warehouse13, Sherlock ~ I don't watch much, but enjoy when I do. Sci-fi & Documentaries.

~ Random Rab, Ill-Esha, Spearhead, Marley, Miles Davis, Enya, Enigma, Loreena Mckennitt, Ella Fitzgerald, & good ol Louie, Sublime, Slightly Stoopid, The Cure, Depeche Mode, Pink Floyd, and Black berry pie
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunsets and waterfalls
Good food and fresh air
Singing ~ Scat jazzy style :)
My archeo and personal journals
Sacred sanctuary and purrrring sexiyumiliciously

More than 6? ~ I'm pro abundance and like visually ordered lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe and about how dimensions of being interplay with physiology while debating zen.

Things to decorate, blindfolded games, fusion experiments involving rotating stuff n' sex. Blackberry pie and Jesus toast.

This is my own dichotomous sense of humor. I can enjoy a serious discussion about theology or have Jesus on toast and enjoy the novelty of life. Sorta seriously though, I think usb toasters are the best thing since sliced bread <--- sorta pun intended.

I spend time thinking about novelty in the universe and tripping over it. Yes I do. I may be a bit of a spiritual anthropologist, but I can still make fun of it all. The only thing I take seriously is Alchemy and NO I don't want to talk about it. HA!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing with my daughter, dancing, devising some ingenious way of bending the space~time continuum.

My yummy friends and I know how to throw DOwn! Sometimes rolling around with blindfolds or dancing our asses off in a wonderland of bliss. Never a dull moment to be had in this dynamic community though I can easily curl up and not get out. Often due to scholastic endeavors these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Playful sexy lover wrestling is fun.. switch it up like nagas entwined in dance.. ~ lace.leather.kink --> flavA ;)

Ask me to and I'll sing on a dime anywhere, I might feel shy, but that won't slow me down.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
ALL these IFs!

...if you found my profile interesting, want to grab a drink, dance, play blindfolds or whathaveyou. You people fascinate me and I want to know about your life's adventures and multifaceted perspectives.

...if you are cool with the fact that I've a wife and child I love dearly. ...if you feel resonant with co-creating something beautiful .. sexy ..or just kickin it.. friendly ...if you have homeostasis and are cozy with poly parallel or perpendicular play and casual connection with caring and loving souls who are busy making a lovely life that eases magically with your style without drama.

I like to know my lover, go out or curl up and watch movies, rubs n' such, however I have a busy life so it's important for my lover to be understanding of this and give space gracefully as well as be clear when they need it.

I star folks rarely and message even less. If I do, it
means I've been pondering you and think you're pretty neatO! Star me if you think the same and we'll see what happens.