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43 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:20am
Asian, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Farsi (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an International San Francisco enthusiast. My soul is in the City. I love and work towards preserving the diversity and uniqueness of the City.

I appreciate Art Deco and Bauhaus design aesthetics and fashion.

I prefer in person face to face form of communication in my relationships with the people I care about who live in the area, instead of texting, skyping, facebooking, facetiming, or tweeting.

I am not a big fan of e-dating either. It is so much better meeting someone in a musuem or a dinner party. The attention span here seems very short and I so hope that this does not become a part-time job with coffee shop interview style meetings. It has that feeling to it.

But, here I am giving it a chance and trying to be open minded. Hopefully, it is better than the bar scene.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at my job. Friends think I am good with humor. I am not so good in bragging about myself. I think I am good with people by being overly diplomatic but also detecting bull-shit.

I know I am a great great dog-sitter.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My energy and enthusiasm about life. That I am down to earth but not too earthy.

I have never asked though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Paul Bowles "Sheltering Sky" Charles Bukowski! "Love is a dog from hell"

Music: Massive Attack-Psychedelic Furs, J.S Bach, hip hop

Films: Buffalo '66, Persepolis

TV Shows: Deadwood, Prime Suspect, BBC crime thrillers!

Theater: Arias with a Twist (This was an apocalyptic drag queen puppet show I saw in NYC a few years ago)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1: Separation of church and state.
2: My career
3: My mom
4: Contemporary Art & culture
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I hate to say it but work. Family and friends are up there too.

I think about being a travel partner although frankly I am not all that into traveling these days. It is overrated.

I also think about why Walmart sells guns but forbids explicit music lyrics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner with friends or decompressing from the work week at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will tell you in private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are kind, compassionate, humble and care about other people's well being. It wouldn't hurt if you have lived in other countries but not mandatory. It would be great if you do not hate your job. Also, I admire overly educated ghetto people. Meaning, folks who come from modest backgrounds who have made something out of their lives and have overcome hardship in life. It can be so inspiring.

I don't want to waste weeks emailing. I prefer meeting in person as long as your profile is not too freakish. We can exchange all the love emails you want after meeting in person if we hit it off.

Must also like dogs!!!!! Thinking about one in 2015.

Lastly, I know we are all busy but I prefer someone who has the time to invest in a relationship as I do.

Thanks for stoping by and if we don't meet, I wish you a fantastic life.