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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 28
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has dogs
English (Fluently), English (Somewhat), English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I value perspective and understanding. I strive to live the difference between "react" and "respond".

I've found that the path to vitality and happiness lies in my ability to be vulnerable, and that having deep, meaningful connections with others is what makes life worth living.

I have my own ethics. I find current gender roles and norms to be rooted in history and fear. I think it's ludicrous that "men don't cry" or aren't supposed to "show emotion" and that women are described as hyper-emotional and irrational.

I know, I know . . . all that shit is really serious. I've got a sense of humor, no doubt. Other people tend to bring it out pretty quickly.
What I’m doing with my life
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Embracing Act Two.

My greatest accomplishment so far isn't my law degree. It's not my admission to the New York Bar. It's not a display of my physical or mental prowess. It's not a relationship, an invention, or a company I built.

My greatest accomplishment came out of my greatest disaster. A period of mental collapse after I tried to start a law firm a year out of law school.

My greatest accomplishment is that I know myself. Damn near completely. And everything that has followed from that knowledge.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading and understanding people. Especially when I'm not wrapped up in my own thoughts. It basically feels like a superpower sometimes.

And I'm learning to use it for good. I'd rather empower than manipulate.

Also woodworking, skiing, writing, and almost anything else I've ever spent time and effort learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
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All depends on the person I'm talking to. Also depends on me asking people this question, which I've never done.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All time favorite: Pulp Fiction. I'm a real sucker for Dialogue. After that, there's hundreds of great ones.


First and Foremost: The Daily Show. Thank you, John Stewart. I'm actually a smarter, better person because I watch a 21 minute comedy show 4 days a week. The Colbert Report works well too.

Aside from that:Game of Thrones, Bored to Death, Dexter, Boardwalk Empire, Deadwood, Weeds, South Park, Nurse Jackie, United States of Tara, Entourage, Eastbound and Down, Hung. Yeah, most shows on HBO and showtime.

Music: Indie's great. I used to be more particular with my music, but I've gotten lazy. Bluegrass is a current favorite.

Food: Anything and everything. Thai, Indian, Mexican, Chinese, Sushi. Steak (rare).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
[1] Kala (my dog), at least she has half her life ahead of her;
[2] The internet (except when i'm in the wilderness);
[3] Exercise;
[4] Scenery/peace and quiet. Yes this counts as one thing. Large, loud cities are not for me;
[5] Coffee; and
[6] Friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Buddhist perspective of "No Self" and how it fits with my perception of the world. It makes writing dating profiles absolutely maddening---who am I if the idea of "I" is an illusion in the first place?

Don't worry . . . I'll be happy to provide examples & context.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking/Conversing/Game Playing/Movie Watching/Working.

I don't have a typical Friday night. Also, I don't do all those things at once.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Here . . . I wouldn't know where to start. But I'll answer any question honestly in person.
You should message me if
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you want to. I should message you back if I want to.

Done and done.