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59 Madison, WI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say

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My self-summary
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Grounded, steady, easy-going engineer that likes to dance. I like physical exercise and am a class junkie. Working out by myself is too painful. It hurts and I stop. There's something about shared pain and an engaging instructor that makes me work harder that I would by myself.

My interests include personal fitness, dancing, sailing, kayaking, biking, and cross country skiing (mostly skate skiing).

I have a 15 yo daughter (who is very independent) who lives with me full time. Also a 20 yo son (who is gay) who is doing a junior year in Uruguay and a 22 yo son (who has joined a church that believes that homosexuality is a sin - I did not see this coming) who is a fifth year senior.

I volunteer as an EMT for my community.

I'd like to find someone interested in couples dancing for friendship, and if the chemistry is there, a deeper relationship.

You can find out a bit more about me on Facebook (mark tusler).

Thanks for reading my profile.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working part-time for an engineering company. Teaching exercise classes - mainly zumba and body pump. Taking care of my 15 yo daughter. Watching and supporting (mainly financially) my two sons in college.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out how to get things done.
Fixing things that are broke.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Weird question. Height - on the taller side of average. Build - on the fitter side of average. Bald, by choice (well at least partly by choice).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: technical books on sailing.

Movies: Don't get to movies much.

Music: Love music - mainly looking at music to use for Zumba routines - latin, pop.

Dance: Ballroom, latin (learning), Rock N Roll jumping around.

Food: Thai, middle-eastern, japanese, lake perch fish fry.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, health, fitness, dancing, music, my IPhone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking at the Ithsmus for places to dance and wishing I had someone to dance with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I work hard at being transparent but this is best left to a one-on-one discussion.
You should message me if
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If it looks like we may have enough common interests that you'd like to have coffee with me.