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40 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Sep 27
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Entertainment / Media
I love to really LISTEN to others, it's amazing the things you can learn if you just listen.
Working a room, be it a fundraiser or awards gala, it's something I was born to do!
Being myself AND helping others feel truly themselves around me! I know that may not sound like a big deal until you start to really think about all the times you (or other people you know if that's too close to home) had too put on a front to feel like you're part of the group or when you knew people around you were "walking on egg shells" around you.
Most of all, I'm great at making people feel better than they did before we met. After all is there anything else we can really ask of each other?
If you're not watching Game of Thrones you are missing out!
BOOKS: Black Like Me,The Secret,The Color Purple,Dune,The History Of Freemasonry,The Count of Monte Cristo,Homo Sapiens - Ray Kurzweil,The Davinci Code,Think and Grow Rich,Dont Sweat the Small Stuff,48 Laws of Power,21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership,Cashflow Quardant,Roots,any thing by Anne Rice,The Dead Sea Scrolls,The Power of Focus,The Power of Positive Thinking,The Art of War,Rich Dad Poor Dad,The Magic of Thinking Big,How to Win Friends and Influence People.
MOVIES: Rudy,Inception,Glory,John Q,Dune,Scarface,Zorro, The Gay Blade,Despicable Me,A TRIBE CALLED QUEST MOVIE,Fat, Sick & Nearly Dead,Memento,Transcendent Man,Blazing Saddles,Casino,Man on Fire,Blade Runner,Office Space,The Godfather,Die Hard,The Prestige,Devil's Dubble,Redbelt,Suicide Kings,The Spanish Prisoner,Act of Valor,Red Cliff,Warriors,Heat,The 40-Year-Old Virgin,Batman Begins,Clerks,The Blues Brothers,Underworld,Ferris Beuller's Day Off,Friday,Pulp Fiction,Jo Jo Dancer, Your Life Is Calling,The Lord of the Rings Trilogy,Star Wars(4,5&6!),Terminator 2,Full Metal Jacket,The Shining,Any Given Sunday,Gladiator,Wedding Crashers,Puss In Boots,The Last Dragon,Indiana Jones,The Lion King,Rocky IV,Rocky III,Coming to America,Trading Places,The Rocky Horror Picture Show,Enter the Dragon,Hero,Apocalypto,Harlem Nights,Young Frankenstein,Hard Boiled,Alien,Predator,Star Trek,Akira,Four Rooms,The Matrix,Goodfellas,Avatar,Tron:Legacy,A Better Tomorrow,Ong Bak 2,Ong-Bak: Muay Thai Warrior,Miami Vice,The Birdcage (one of the funniest movies EVER),The Hangover,I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings,Bringing Down the House,Blade,Aliens,True Lies,True Romance,conan,Contact,Ghost in the Shell,Ninja Scroll,The Killer
FOOD: I had a real love affair with food! I eat it all except for pork. The only thing I like more than eating it with someone is preparing it with them first! There is something so real that comes from it. Maybe we can make something together sometime...
You think you can keep up!
Looking for cool new person to watch movie, play a game or
Paint the town red with.
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