Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*** update: I'm still the same person as below, however I have just
entered a monogamous relationship because the person I am seeing I
really like. I've met people who are in monogamous relationships
however identify as being non-practicing polyamorous. I don't like
labels, however I can relate to these sentiments. I am interested
in meeting people having fun making choices similar to my own or
who are actively having poly or open relationships to learn more
about myself and how other people are doing this.***
I am passionate about being radically true to my values...which
encompass love, compassion as well as social and environmental
justice locally and globally and applying them to my lifestyle, my
work and my various relationships. ... i prefer doing this in
community and having fun while at it...i feel this at the heart,
body and spirit level and also enjoy thinking about it.... I prefer
being open and sharing over private and closed, at home and
I am non-monogamous and excited about values encompassed by
. I don't wish to put myself in a box or
define myself in any particular way...however I'm interested in
honesty, authenticity and love. And as such, I'm interested in
being with people who allow each other to decide who to love, or
how to love them. I'm just starting to delve into this after
reading Sex at
and piece together important elements of perhaps a truer
understanding of myself and society. I really like thinking and
talking about this ! ;-)... wish to at least explore such possible
truths and their implications for authenticity, freedom and apple
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
not taking myself too seriously while trying to make the world a
better place, learning, growing and exploring fun ways of doing
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
living true to my values
being pretty good at cooking
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
relaxed dress in conservative environments
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
philosophical, spiritual, pacifist, mystical, fiction
Thich Nhat Hanh, Dostoevsky, Klima
folk, rock, live, classical
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
book i'm reading
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
making the world a better place, pacifism, non-violence,
relationships, nature, people i love and like, environmentalism,
inclusion, home improvement
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
no typical friday - out with friends, yoga, relaxing at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i think a lot about what others are thinking about, feeling,
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am grateful to have friends i like a lot in Toronto, however - I
am interested in expanding my social circle to meet more people who
are actively exploring polyamorous or non-monogamous aspects of
themselves whether they are single, in open, poly or monogamous
relationships.... I'm in a committed monogamous relationship, so
don't message me if you are only interested in dating! I've also
joined some poly/open meetups so maybe see you there!
You are loving, understanding, and interested in if not passionate
about radical politics and lifestyle that reflects a compassionate
worldview ... you can make me laugh
Who are you looking for?
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