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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:59pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So about me... I'm a positive, adventurous guy with lots of interesting hobbies and a pretty full and happy life. I've had piles of great experiences so far and look forward to having many more. I like to try new things, so it may look like I’m going through a bucket list, but really, new interests are added all the time; it’s just who I am.

It's important for you to know that I'm polyamorous. I've been happily married for over a decade and have a younger daughter that I adore. I would love to meet other poly people to be friends, lovers and adventurers together. My wife and I don't date as a couple - we have separate partners and don’t usually play together. It's important that everyone get along though, neither of us is interested in segregating our lives into separate parcels. If you'd like to know more about our style of non-monogamy, please ask.

Another important part of my life is my child. If you’re a parent, you know how much of your time this absorbs, so it would be a bonus if you have a child in elementary school or close to it. We love fun family camping and day trips to the aquarium or park together.

One of the things that I really enjoy is to pick up new skills and have new experiences. I suppose I'm a bit dilettantish, but I have found some pretty interesting life-long hobbies.

I love the outdoors and really enjoy camping and hiking. In addition to hockey, I swim/bike/run (did Ironman Canada 2011), ski, golf (on occasion) and am up for pretty much anything athletic.

I'm also really into woodworking and construction and have pretty much renovated my entire house. Last year built a huge detached garage on my property and am currently rebuilding the deck. I find it really relaxing to be working with my hands...

Music is another hobby I pursue with various degrees of vigor. Mainly I focus on guitar, but have been known to play banjo, drums, alto sax, and given enough beer I will even sing.

If you're still reading. then bravo...
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, building, exploring, laughing, enjoying, living.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
If I had to pick one thing, it would be that I'm really good at being kinda good at a whole lot of stuff. I'm really a jack of all trades and master of none.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I forgot to shave this morning.

I hate shaving, but I also don't like beards. It's a conundrum.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: all over the map. Pretty much everything but death metal and really twangy misogynistic new country.

Books: sadly I don't read as much as I used to. I generally lean towards sci-fi and fantasy but get into all sorts of stuff. I just finished Seveneves and The Martian - both were fantastic! The unabridged version of The Stand may be my favourite book ever.

Movies: I'll watch anything. Faves include Shawshank Redemption, Children of Men, Mr and Mrs Smith, Princess Bride, Memento, the original Star Wars trilogy , LOTR and geez I dunno there are so many... I have a weakness for bad 80's action flicks too.

TV: Really like Game of Thrones, Archer, Sense8, House of Cards. I watch more movies and less serial TV now that we cut the cable and only have Netflix.

Food: Probably Southern barbecue. If I had to pick one dish, it would be Memphis Blues brisket.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends. Pat answer numero uno.
Something to make music with. Luckily I can whistle.
Tools. If I had to pick one, it would be a hammer.
Coffee. Sad but true.
A good book.
A towel. Just because.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kid - making sure she has what she needs (not necessarily what she _wants_)
My latest hobby
Social issues, how can we make this world a better place
Technology - I'm fascinated by where tech is going to go in the near future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
So random. Recent Fridays included:
- watching a friends band at the Commodore
- sitting by a lake in the Okanagan watching the sun set
- madly trying to finish landscaping my yard before the rains set in
- viewing a movie with my kid and eating real home-made popcorn

Usually Fridays are a slower evening to wind down from the week. Saturdays are more my going-out night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I read my kid stories at bedtime, I do ALL the voices. With accents.
You should message me if
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You're open/not-vigorously-opposed to polyamory and are interested in a combination of fun adventures and caring relationship. I'm interested in relationships ranging from pretty casual to long term.