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78 M Port Macquarie, Australia

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–68
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 12
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Older than most of you on OKC, I reckon, but feel as young as the youngest - (well, the youngest over fifty, anyway!). I'm not overweight (or not that you can see), I'm usually smiling, and I get along with almost everyone. I am of British/Scottish stock, which means I burn in the sun fairly readily, so don't go naked sunbaking for more than 20 minutes at a time.
I gave up smoking over 25 years ago, and drink (wine, not beer) only with a meal, and then not often. Anything else I'll tell you when we meet over coffee or whatever.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to repair it, so I can get ON with it. I had a a right hip op (THR) on 16 June, and our sojourn here in the Port Macquaire and the mid-North Coast is nearly over. Being Property Minders, we travel the whole country in our fifth wheeler (see photos). Andrea, my partner of thirty-eight years had a hysterectomy back in 2003, which put our sex life totally and permanently out of action. (Don't ask)( Yes, ask) So we are looking at Polyamory as a lifestyle. To us, it takes all the sexual limitations off the marriage without interfering with the Love, Respect, Caring and Acceptance, all of which we still have. It also opens up the partnership to additional pairings if they come along, as well as the fun of having Friends with Benefits.
Polyamory is MUCH more than just a way of screwing "anyone anytime". It is firstly about the freedom of choice, and coincides with taking full and personal responsibility for those choices. It opens up your real loving capacity, and can be expanded or contracted ad-libitum. Polyamory treats people as equals, whoever you are, an expands your mind as well as your perspective. It also treats recreational sex as normal human activity, which to most of us it should be. (end of lifestyle promotion). Talk to me about it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things, depending on your point of view, and interest. When I had a house and shed, I could put just about anything together whether it needed sawing welding or chopping. Now we're on the road Property Minding all over Australia, my workshop is limited to hand tools. (sigh)
The first things people usually notice about me
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The grin - it's perennial, and contagious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Forget movies and shows- I did years ago. Music from all ages, from "Baroque and Before" to modern classical and folk - via several years as a jazz drummer. I am now trying to teach myself acoustic Bass guitar
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
SIX? Who writes these things? OK, then - sex,. . . .no, I have been living without that for over ten years, so I can't put that here -Love (giving and receiving), companionship, good food, good music, art, friends, plus (as they're beyond the six) the freedom to travel, and friends to travel with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
and around, and inside, under, and every other which way. It's more fun like that, and you learn some surprising things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as a typical Friday in our lifestyle
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is not to be found in a place like this!
You should message me if
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- You would like to know what polyamory is,
-you know what polyamory is and would like to discuss it,
- Any other reason, or
- no reason at all.