Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Australian, so I speak English with an Australian accent. This
might be a bit of a problem for you if English is nor your first
language - unless you're German. I have many German friends, mostly
couples, and they seem to be able to pick up the Australians'
nuances, terminology and humour of this country better than even a
lot of English speakers.
I am a polyamster; a would-be active member of a married (or
otherwise tied) couple with a celibate partner. We have been
together for nearly forty years, and that's not something you throw
away lightly, so we took on polyamory as a lifestyle, allowing each
of us to form partnerships with others without spoiling our
That's why I'm here, effectively. I would like to have a sex life
again, if I can find someone who is in a similar position to me,
and would like a friend with an occasional benefit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
We are Property Minders in all the Australian States except (at the
moment) Tasmania because of the expense getting down there. We call
it that to distinguish it from house sitting, as we provide our own
accommodation, and don't live in the house.
What we get from the owners is a potable water supply, a power
connection (to back-up our solar panels, and the use of the
In exchange, we provide a presence on the farm of propery, and
attend to pets, and garden
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a friend, and lots of other things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have a Kindle, as does my wife, so we have the capacity to have
very many books - and we use it.
ur lifestyle precludes much in the way of movies, shows and the
like, so we read a lot, and publish a monthly Newsletter.
Music - mainly classical and early Jazz. I was a drummer for years,
and also played trombone.
I'll eat anything 3xcept shellfish (which I consider"bait"), And my
wife is currently voluntarily an a gluten free regime, but
otherwise easy to cater for.
We both cook, and are partial to Thai foods and cooking methods,
but not exclusively, by any means.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Grey Nomads lifestyle makes you subject to change in a lot of
ways, so we learn to substitute. There is probably nothing we
cannot "do without" for a time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Our next "job", what it will entail, and how do we make friends
with the charges, to keep them happy with the temporary change of
people. I also think a lot about who you are, and will we get along
, and intangible things like that
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing what I do every night . . . .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you would like a carefree relationship without the pain of
jealousy, leaving you free to have more than one such relationship
in peace and harmony, like we polyamsters do.
- You would like to know what polyamory is,
-you know what polyamory is and would like to discuss it,
- Any other reason, or
- no reason at all.
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