I have been in a state of flux, it seems. For the past 5 years or so, I’ve been shifting away from my college-era cynicism and wry humor (though the latter still rears its head from time to time) to become more aware, emotiionally conscious and empathetic. Plenty of work to be done, but despite my ever-present and copious faults, I feel really comfortable in my own skin right now.
I am also ridiculously naive in some things. I have very little experience with romantic relationships of any sort (no friends with benefits either, my sex drive is rather low), so I have a lot to learn in that regard. I have observed from various perspectives, and feel like I have opinions on the matter, but I also realize that experiencing these things firsthand needs to be part of my personal growth. If that sounds ominous, well, it kind of is. But I think I’ve also reached a stage of respect and openness where it just might work.
Anyway, apart from that, I am generally humorous (as in I like to make mpeople laugh, people including myself), and would describe myself as a seeker, in life as in art. I’m not interested in boxes or fitting myself into one, unless I have slaved away at constructing that box over many years. That’s a cozy box I might consider, though it would probably a cocoon I soon discard. You know how it goes.