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28 M Gent, Belgium

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:56am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I’m Didier, thanks for stopping by. I’m an ambler; I live life slowly and considerately when possible. As a result, my stresss levels / blood pressure are agnozingly stable. I like it that way.
I have been in a state of flux, it seems. For the past 5 years or so, I’ve been shifting away from my college-era cynicism and wry humor (though the latter still rears its head from time to time) to become more aware, emotiionally conscious and empathetic. Plenty of work to be done, but despite my ever-present and copious faults, I feel really comfortable in my own skin right now.
I am also ridiculously naive in some things. I have very little experience with romantic relationships of any sort (no friends with benefits either, my sex drive is rather low), so I have a lot to learn in that regard. I have observed from various perspectives, and feel like I have opinions on the matter, but I also realize that experiencing these things firsthand needs to be part of my personal growth. If that sounds ominous, well, it kind of is. But I think I’ve also reached a stage of respect and openness where it just might work.
Anyway, apart from that, I am generally humorous (as in I like to make mpeople laugh, people including myself), and would describe myself as a seeker, in life as in art. I’m not interested in boxes or fitting myself into one, unless I have slaved away at constructing that box over many years. That’s a cozy box I might consider, though it would probably a cocoon I soon discard. You know how it goes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
There are a few things. I have been DJing more lately, and would like to pursue that in the short to mid-term. Not because I’m just that good of a DJ (I’m not), but I think in selecting music I can be of some use. And I like doing it.
I also write, or have the urge to. I’m working on finishing a book focused on a trip I took last year through the United States. Basically anecdotal stuff about traveling solo as a blind person (I’m blind, by the way, hadn’t really come up until this point I guess). It may end up being worth someone’s time, but for now it is still in the creative womb.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Though I am unschooled and not always in the mood, I can dance foolishly well sometimes. More usefully, people seem to think I’m a good listener. Whether that is true is up to the individual, but it’s very flattering that some people think so. I can be a good talker, too; again, opinions vary.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not really sure. I tend to be pretty approachable, though. I've also been told I have expressive shoulders, whatever that means.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The list would be very long. What I will say is that my favorite artworks combine various elements:
- They are not easily defined by genre.
- They are intellectually stimulating yet
- bring about a visceral emotional reaction

If I were to suggest one piece of art, in this case a record, that illustrates that for me, it would be Haha Sound by the British band Broadcast. Incredibly beautiful, thought-provoking, sometimes bewildering, and very hard to compare (some have tried, none have really succeded). I'm on a constant quest for books and records like this. I don't watch too many movies, not because I don't want to, but books and music are what capture most of my time.
My bookshelf on GoodReads:

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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It shifts rather drastically based on the situation. ometimes I'l be on a bus with multiple screaming children and the only thing I really need is a pair of headphones pumping a Frank Zappa record.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Friends in far-away lands.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ain't no such thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book. You want awkward diarrhea stories, I'm your man. Maybe you don't want those, though.
You should message me if
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You decide. I'm always happy to meet up with or talk to new people, so if you think we have something to talk about or would like to hang out, fire away! I know this is a dating website, and I think we all hve hopes and such, but let's approach any first contacts as just that. My experience with different social networks has always been that they can really surprise you, if you let them.