26 Terre Haute, IN
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My self-summary
The reason I am on here? I am chronically shy. I have learned in my life that girls do not like shy guys. So many say that shy guys need to "man up" and ask the her out; this is the 21st century, gals. If you see a guy you are interested in, you're telling me you'll wait for him to make the first move? Assume he doesn't...
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am doing what everyone loves most after being unemployed: retail!! No, I have actually been promoted to the point of being maybe-maybe-not retail. What can I say, it pays the bills and sometimes I even have enough leftover for food.
I’m really good at
I love weight lifting. Bench and curl are my specialties, but I do plenty of other lifts as well. Sorry, I have a weak heart: no cardio:(

I love to write and am an aspiring author who has every intention of publishing my crap, seeing there's not enough of it in mainstream literature.

I also am a listener. Most men don't like hearing about drama. Call me a drama king or doormat if you will:) If you have issues or problems, I don't take issue with that; I have experience trying to salvage relationships of other people. N.B. the word "trying". Come on, I am a manager, so I have to deal with drama, and not infrequently, I may add:)
The first things people usually notice about me
No idea whatsoever. Tickle my fancy if you will.

I tend to be very expressive in my body language if comfortable and quit flippant with my humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Toni Morrison once said that should there be a book that you wish to read but cannot find it, write it. That is precisely what I am doing. Fantasy and science fiction do nicely for me. No, I am not composing a Lord-of-the-Rings rip off; the muses are only slightly more generous to me than that.

Movies: Romance, Horror, Action/Adventure. I have seen a bunch of 30's and 40's movies. Silver Linings Playbook, Gladiator, The Avengers, Spiderman, Moonrise Kingdom, Aliens.

I read a fair amount as well. I am currently reading Brideshead Revisited and Knight's Own Code of Chivarly by Geoffoi de Charny.

70,000+ Gamer Score
The six things I could never do without
Creative intelligence or intelligent creativity: either will do
Weight Set
Food with protein a little now and then.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why we can't just all laugh a little more and get along? As I move higher up in my job, I see so many people sacrifice their "beliefs" for a paycheck and such. Disappointing:(
On a typical Friday night I am
On internet.
Working out.
The occasional movie in a theater.
Xbox Live.
Occasional outing.
Grocery Shopping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not sure if there is record or something, but I've been on this site for 3.5 years and nothing's come of it. Maybe I should wait for 10 before I ask...
You should message me if
You're actually a girl. Yeah, that's a gem for an online dating site.