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35 Philadelphia, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33-55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 11
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So I noticed a huge shortage of men with long hair around and it pains me like a little lost sea creature alone in the vast oceans of the deep. Or something. :) I want a lover, a magical, strong crazy soul who is a bit hardened but wise and still youthful where it matters.
If you're funny, and can make me hurl over in hysterics til my eyes water...well, that's what is important, I will not settle for less. Also an element of wildness needs to be a part of your personality, I have a high tolerance for fun. Not to say that I don't enjoy quiet nights but if I'm dating someone I'm into we should be out doing awesome things! I refuse to sit on a couch and watch TV, that's the LAST thing I wanna do with a guy I'm dating.
Hopefully you work, and see work as an essential part of life. If you are actively pursuing a dream in the arts or music world even better, I believe in that shit. I live in a little house, with cheap rent and understand that material things are nothing compared to maintaining friendships and creating a life full of love and art. Oh wait, this should be about me…hmmm…I can be silly and serious, think music is probably the greatest part of life, love the many close friends I have and stay loyal to them even when they fuck up, love working with teenagers, am thankful to have what I do, love animals (think they're better than humans) love learning about science and space, long for more nature in my life (sunsets are my favorite), and like to drink about once a week for camaraderie, escape and personal reflection and I get very LOVEY haha!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Teaching art and the meanings of life to teenagers. Been at it 13 years, I love it.
Spending the summer traveling.
Need to make more art!!
Playing music. Originals and covers. Its fun. I think I'm pretty okay.

Currently very focused on making music Listen
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pitch. Playing by ear. Figuring out how to play "Summer of 69" or any other nostalgic crowd pleaser in about 1 and a half minutes.
Knowing how much every property in the nearest 5 mile radius is going for and the pros and cons of them...elipses...I. Love. Ellipses...
Having descriptive lucid dreams. Getting enough sleep. Being humble about my music. Being open minded. Portraits. Driving long distances. Never being bored.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Its become a little easier to see myself through anothers eyes.
Come off like a cool burnt out stoner chick who is silly, goofy and animated. Notice I said "come off", key words there. I've been told I'm intimidating, I'm tall maybe that's it? If I'm out I seem pretty confident, but of course we all have our insecurities. Some people have said I have "presence" when I walk into a room, so that's pretty cool. Believe me, I am in no way full of myself though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sorry I don't really read a lot.When I'm old and can't move I'll have plenty of time! What better way to escape old age? STILL currently reading Women Who Run With the Wolves...The True Adventures of the Rolling Stones, Pronoia. Some Phillip K. Dick would be nice.
Movies are great but lately I have a hard time sitting still long enough to watch them.
Joe Rogan Podcasts and True Detective!!!! Those two combined are my religion lol.
Science channels, planets
Music: Much more than just this but: Frank ZAPPA, Classic Rock, Rolling Stones, Dinosaur Jr. Black Moth Super Rainbow, Delta Spirit, Felice Brothers, BJORK, bluegrass, portishead, Television, Patti Smith, foxygen, new order, Old school 90's hip hop, funk, grateful dead, The Seven Fields of Aphalion, Neutral Milk Hotel, Old Modest Mouse, Two Gallants, The Cure, Morissey, Cake, Captain Beefheart, tori, Billy Holiday, Steely Dan...tired of typing bleh...I could eat seafood everyday and pretty much do.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I wish I didn't like sleep. I remind myself of the phrase, "you'll sleep when your dead" and I like that...except you won't be'll be...dead.
my bed,
a hot bath,
The Internet,
Music. Singing really de-stresses me.
Couldn't do without People..."In the end that's all that really mattered". -Waking Life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to deal. differently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
playing music or sitting in silence reading or having drinks with friends doing whatever the **** I want
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd like to admit it all eventually. I don't like keeping guilty secrets.
You should message me if
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You don't mind when the woman comes first. I Don't mean that sexually.
You like to help and fix things.
You don't smother but can adore.
You love the Stones. I have a sick obsession with Keith Richards. Seriously I have framed pictures of him (circa 1973) on every wall in my living room.
You like Zappa.
You are actually going to follow through. If I'm texting you, I'm interested, but meeting strangers for blind dates completely sober isn't my favorite thing, you must lure me.