Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In my mid thirties, have a neat job, and happy living in the PNW. I
work in the publishing industry and straddle the world of business
and technology. I started my career at a very early age, and worked
very hard to get what I have now.
I find humor in every day life. I will go out of my way to bring
someone joy, who is also willing to do the same for me. I think the
right woman for me is courageous, honest, loving, and shares my
playful sense of humor.
I have a dog named Beau, he is a ladies man, and an introvert. I
rescued him a few years ago, and he is my buddy, until a lady
enters his house. Then he is your dog.
I was not born in Washington state, but grew up on Washington ave
in small town New Jersey. While this might sound random, I have
been here since 2011, and didn't catch this until now. While we are
on the topic, my porn star name would be Mickey Washington. Our
German Shepard was named Mickey, and no, not the mouse.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I extended sober October in to a multi month project, and cut way
back on the booze. Lost a ton of poundage, and shopping for new
wardrobe at the moment. During my months of self awareness, I have
a new goal. "Project Too Much Stuff" is in full effect. I have been
downsizing, selling things, and investing in the living space Feng
I love to cook, and pretty damn good as my confidence has improved
over the years. I was that annoying kid that hung out in the
kitchen while the men watched football, and grumbled about stuff.
Grandma cooked everything from scratch, and my mother could
frankenstein a casserole out of anything, as we didn't have much
I started a meat curing hobby last year, and I finally sliced up
the rest of it. Lessons include, cure less meat or make more
friends. My wine fridge (aka curing chamber) was hosting way too
many projects at once. On the plus side, I now have room for
When it comes to active things. I don't like boring, and want to
have fun with it. I spent months training for Livestrong, only to
finish with a flat, and a bad spill at the end. I dedicated years
of my life to a volunteer fire and rescue squad, though much of it
involved downed power lines and drunks who needed a place to crash
for the night. What made these challenges so important to me is not
the actual task, but the support of people closest to me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Diving right in and getting the boring stuff out of the way, so I
can spend my time on more valuable things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyebrows are independent, and I look like I have something to
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I work in the publishing industry, and love my job. On my
off time, I enjoy other distractions.
Movies: I like to watch gritty flicks, foreign things, dramas,
thrillers, and horror if it's done well. I don't own a cable box
since paying for commercials is silly.
Food: I love variety. It could be a tofu, pork cheek, jelly infused
something, and I will scarf down every last bite, simply because
that is something I never had before.
Music: My passion, and some songs till this day, still make me cry.
I write occasional tune, and I will never form an opinion of
someone based on what they listen to. If you are tone deaf, and
trying to sing, that's cool. I may join in so we can sound awful in
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Things that keep my mind humming away.
2. Beau, my judgmental dog.
3. Friends in it for the long haul.
4. Music, and things that make my ass shake.
5. The past 37 years, as it made me who I am.
6. A good single malt scotch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I had no eyesight, would I walk around nude?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In my PJs as soon as I can, and relaxing. Dinners out however are a
good way to get me back into pants. If you know of a spot where I
can have both PJs and dinner, amazing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I like more than elevator chit-chat on a date, and you should too.
We may click, and that's awesome. If not, that's ok. So take
advantage, and be your awkward random self, as you never know what
will happen next.
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