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37 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently)
I have a dog named Beau, he is a ladies man, and an introvert. I rescued him a few years ago, and he is my buddy, until a lady enters his house. Then he is your dog.
I took a break from online dating over the winter months to hit the big ol' reset button. Nothing dramatic, and no skeletons to speak of, but I did focus on the health and mental state of mind stuff. As such I am entering spring with a clearer head, focussed on I want in a relationship, as that person could become a life time best friend.
I love to cook, and pretty damn good as my confidence has improved over the years. I was that kid that hung out in the kitchen while the men grumbled at football. Grandma cooked everything from scratch, and my mother could frankenstein a casserole out of anything.
I love active things, but not hamster wheels. Day hikes, bike rides, and adventures are awesome. Running in place while glaring in to a TV watching Dr Phil, is not.
I recently dropped a bunch of weight from cutting back on the booze and snacks, which is both good and bad. Good in the sense that I don't recognize myself in the pictures I have online. On the other hand, I am now a cheap date, and will pick coffee over whiskey, as I get really honest to a fault. The "jersey" heritage really doesn't help either.
Movies: Foreign films, dramas, thrillers, etc. I don't own a cable box since paying for commercials is silly. Netflix is getting quite good at knowing what I want to watch.
Food: I love variety. It could be a tofu, pork cheek, jelly infused something, and I will scarf down every last bite, simply because that is something I never had before.
Music: I write the occasional tune, and could sing on a road trip. If you are tone deaf, that's cool, join in so we can sound awful in harmony. Random artists on my phone; Chet Faker, Andreya Triana, Arts the Beatdoctor, Bonobo, Jon Hopkins, Moderat, The Q4, and Telefon Tel Aviv.
2. Beau, my dog.
3. Friends in it for the long haul.
4. Creative topics that inspire.
5. Finding comfort in simple things.
6. A good single malt scotch.
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