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37 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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In my mid thirties, have a neat job working in digital content publishing, and happy living in Seattle. I started my career at a very early age, and worked very hard for what I have now.

I have a dog named Beau, he is a ladies man, and an introvert. I rescued him a few years ago, and he is my buddy, until a lady enters his house. Then he is your dog.

I took a break from online dating over the winter months to hit the big ol' reset button. Nothing dramatic, and no skeletons to speak of, but I did focus on the health and mental state of mind stuff. As such I am entering spring with a clearer head, focussed on I want in a relationship, as that person could become a life time best friend.
What I’m doing with my life
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I finally got a p-patch in my neighborhood, and could use some tips for gardening in a city garden.

I love to cook, and pretty damn good as my confidence has improved over the years. I was that kid that hung out in the kitchen while the men grumbled at football. Grandma cooked everything from scratch, and my mother could frankenstein a casserole out of anything.

I love active things, but not hamster wheels. Day hikes, bike rides, and adventures are awesome. Running in place while glaring in to a TV watching Dr Phil, is not.

I recently dropped a bunch of weight from cutting back on the booze and snacks, which is both good and bad. Good in the sense that I don't recognize myself in the pictures I have online. On the other hand, I am now a cheap date, and will pick coffee over whiskey, as I get really honest to a fault. The "jersey" heritage really doesn't help either.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recently, I have gotten really good at creating a healthy life work balance. This is one skill that will not be forgotten.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books are random. I enjoy fiction on screen, and non-fiction or satire on paper. I blame Stephen King, and embrace Amy Sedaris if that makes sense.

Movies: Foreign films, dramas, thrillers, etc. I don't own a cable box since paying for commercials is silly. Netflix is getting quite good at knowing what I want to watch.

Food: I love variety. It could be a tofu, pork cheek, jelly infused something, and I will scarf down every last bite, simply because that is something I never had before.

Music: I write the occasional tune, and could sing on a road trip. If you are tone deaf, that's cool, join in so we can sound awful in harmony. Random artists on my phone; Chet Faker, Andreya Triana, Arts the Beatdoctor, Bonobo, Jon Hopkins, Moderat, The Q4, and Telefon Tel Aviv.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The head on my shoulders.
2. Beau, my dog.
3. Friends in it for the long haul.
4. Creative topics that inspire.
5. Finding comfort in simple things.
6. A good single malt scotch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I had no eyesight, would I walk around nude?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unplugging from work somewhere chill. The venue varies.
You should message me if
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I like more than elevator chit-chat on a date, and you should too. We may click, and that's awesome. If not, that's ok. So be yourself, as you never know what will happen next.