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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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My career guided me here to the pacific north west in fall of 2011, and thankful for it. I work hard, manage things not people, and love what I do. I live and work in SLU, but seek refuge elsewhere when I can. My commute is awesome, but would like a backyard someday.

I speak from the heart, and sometimes honest to a fault. I like the what makes us human, and will tell my life story to random strangers if asked. I want to meet someone who is mature and has a good plan. An interesting woman, with a friendly and outgoing social personality. I think the right woman for me is courageous, honest, loving, and shares my playful sense of humor.

I took a break from online dating over the past few months to hit the reset button, feeling refreshed, and focused on I want in a relationship, as that person could become a life time best friend. That said, I am not looking to go on a few dates and move in. Like many, I have goals in life, but you never know what direction life will take you, so I am along for the ride.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a dog named Beau, and he is a ladies man. I rescued him a few years ago, and he is my buddy, until a woman enters his house, then he is your dog. He also likes to chase cats, but has no clue what to do if he catches up with them.

I love to cook, and pretty damn good as my confidence has improved over the years. I was that kid that kicked it in the kitchen while the men grumbled about stuff during family events. Grandma cooked everything from scratch, and my mother could Frankenstein a casserole out of anything.

I love active things, but not hamster wheels. Day hikes, bike rides, and adventures are awesome. Running in place while glaring in to a TV watching Dr Phil, is not. I like sports, and I am from another state. As such, I can root for the opposing team whenever I want.

Over the winter I dropped a lot of weight from cutting back on the booze and snacks. I will likely pick coffee or tea over whiskey most times, as I have found caffeine to be just as effective as booze to get the social juices flowing. I also like getting silly with nice single malt, and the honesty it brings to the conversation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating a healthy life work balance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books are random. I enjoy fiction on screen, and non-fiction or satire on paper. I blame Stephen King, and embrace Amy Sedaris if that makes sense.

Movies: Foreign films, dramas, thrillers, etc. I don't own a cable box since paying for commercials is silly. Netflix is quite good at knowing what I want to watch.

Food: I love variety. It could be a tofu, pork cheek, jelly infused something, and I will scarf down every last bite, simply because that is something I never had before.

Music: I write the occasional tune, and could sing on a road trip. If you are tone deaf, that's cool, join in so we can sound awful in harmony. Random artists on my phone; Chet Faker, Andreya Triana, Arts the Beatdoctor, Bonobo, Jon Hopkins, Moderat, The Q4, and Telefon Tel Aviv.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Lazy afternoon naps.
2. Beau, my bud.
3. Friends in it for the long haul.
4. Creative things that inspire.
5. Finding comfort in simple pleasures.
6. A cozy place to dwell.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I had no eyesight, would I walk around nude?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unplugging from work somewhere chill. The venue varies.
You should message me if
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I like more than elevator chit-chat on a date, and you should too. We may click, and that's awesome. If not, that's OK. So be random and enjoy the randomness this site brings to your life.