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  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English, Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I like the quiet parts, and I like the loud parts.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm 2 years into adventures in SF after some time in Seattle. Seattle was good for the balance of city life and outdoor life. At some point I realized I wasn't so focused on snowboarding and mountaineering anymore, and decided to see what I could make happen in the big city. (Still down for some snowboarding though...)
Taking acting classes. Don't anticipate a career change, but I would like to do some actual acting.
Practicing primary care medicine, hopefully doing some good for the health of the community.
Playing guitar, recording my music, scheming to get it out into the world.
Being silly, impulsive, in the moment when I don’t have to be serious, restrained, or looking to the future.
Always trying to make it better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting wherever I need to go to see the friends and catch the bands I love.

Coaxing beautiful noise out of a guitar.

Baking bread.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently I look like a musician.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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5) Shows… Archer, Futurama, Dexter, Mad Men.

4) Food… Japanese (more specific? raw fish, karaage, doteyaki, most of it really). I like my lox and bagels a lot too.

3) Movies… Dead Man (not Dead Man Walking, though I also like that one), The Professional, Rushmore, The Incredibles, Lord of the Rings (extended editions, natch!), Closer, Heat, American Gangster, American History X, Zoolander, Sexy Beast, the most recent incarnations of Batman and Star Trek, Barton Fink, 8-Mile, The Social Network (with that gorgeous Trent Reznor soundtrack)

2) Books… Haruki Murakami (The Wind-up Bird Chronicles), Henry Miller (Tropic of Capricorn). Neal Stephenson. Salman Rushdie. Brian Greene (The Elegant Universe). I've gone and gotten addicted to the Song of Ice and Fire books too.

1) Music… is the best. (Almost) every genre has something to offer. Hard guitar-based rock performed by talented musicians still holds the deepest place in my musical heart. Trent Reznor is absolutely my hero. Love to dance, especially to EDM. And Electric Daisy Carnival is my favorite event of the year.

Acts I would cross an ocean to see:
Tool, Radiohead, Nine Inch Иails, Deadmau5.

Acts I would cross the country to see:
Deltron 3030, Kaskade, Metallica, Massive Attack, UNKLE.

Acts I would without hesitation stay out until 2 a.m. on a work night to see:
Above & Beyond, Boris, Cat Power, Tomahawk, Dub Trio, Jane’s Addiction (I’d cross the country, but they play in Cali so often), Califone, Future of the Left, Mat Zo, Porter Robinson, Snoop Dogg, DJ Krush, Boys Noize, MSTRKRFT, Trentemøller, Junior Brown, BLK JKS, Jesu, Polvo, Lupe Fiasco.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• my guitar, or at least a guitar
• a well-crafted double short Americano
• mountains, though I do without them more than I should
• great live bands and DJs
• adventures, and between those, micro-adventures
• a book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to find and grow a great relationship.

Another tattoo. Not an impulsive ink acquirer, but I do have a design gradually taking shape in my head.

Lately... adopting a dog
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing what I can to make it more atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love singing karaoke.
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