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41 M Boulder, CO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:51pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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What I’m doing with my life
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From NYC and moved to Boulder a few years ago but I am in NYC a lot. I am a long time musician who also sells real estate. Or maybe I am a real estate agent who also plays music... Both of which I really enjoy and nerd out over. Been in a lot of rock bands, make electronic music, write, produce, and I have a small concert promotions company back east in NYC. I am pretty entrepreneurially minded having run my own business for many years. I like mindfulness meditation and secular buddhism, sushi, snowboarding, hiking, sailing, biking, jamming. My political views are synonymous with Jon Stewart and I am happy to debate them.

I am primarily looking for cool people to hang out with. No expectations. Open to relationships and interested in finding people I can connect with and have fun. Going for a hike, or having a manhattan at a bar, are equally appealing to me.

I went to a fancy schmancy boarding school and have read a lot of high brow literature but I have thoroughly enjoyed my years as a starving artist so bonus points if you can be comfortable slumming it with the rockers and hanging with the ivy-leaguers in the same night.

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I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting into just the right amount of trouble
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Places That Scare You by Pema Chodron, Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism, Chogyam Trungpa. The Singularity Is Near, Ray Kurzweil, Kahil Gibran - The Prophet

Movies: The Matrix, LOTR, Star Trek (the reboot), Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind- might be the greatest relationship movie of all time.

Shows: Game Of Thrones, Walking Dead, The Daily Show

Food: Sushi and Japanese, Thai, home cooking. I am not vegan but I love to cook vegan dishes at home and I try to eat one or more vegan meals a day-- I think its good for my body, the environment and makes the world a better place. I think the industrial food complex is really fucking up things so I try to be mindful about that stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, friendship, sunshine, music. I guess thats 4.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to affect change globally by acting at an individual level
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
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