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41 Boulder, CO Man


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  • Ages 28–41
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Yesterday – 11:32pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
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Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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With our thoughts we make the world.

half asian- all amazing
hiking and music playing
selling real estate and meditating

I like critical thinking and conversation as well as creative endeavors like making music, which i do a lot. Meditation helps me stay in tune with my core values and be present and flexible and humor helps everything. I believe that of all things, compassion may be the most important for us as individuals and for the world as a whole.
What I’m doing with my life
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Im writing a lullabye
to sing myself to sleep,
All the stories i tell myself
about the future and the past,
disintigrate in front of me,
like sun on frost that cannot last

All these lullabies i sing
tell a story of a character i play
all these castles i build in the sand
will be washed away at the end of my day
whats left without castles and characters
is me

castles in the sand
sun melting frost
happily ever after
but missing whats lost

Stare at the dancing stars
of a computer screen
i am missing the now
performing another scene

So i sing myself a lullabye, and put myself to bed
because those lyrics have already been written,
and those stories have already been read
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting into just the right amount of trouble
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Places That Scare You by Pema Chodron, Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism, Chogyam Trungpa. The Singularity Is Near, Ray Kurzweil, Kahil Gibran - The Prophet

Movies: In the past year, I think Edge Of Tomorrow, Birdman and maybe Interstellar were my favorite movies.. Older movies that come to mind: Star Trek (the reboot), Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Braveheart (but Mel is insane), The Matrix, LOTR.

Shows: The Daily Show, Colbert, Game Of Thrones, Walking Dead,

Food: Sushi and Japanese, Thai, home cooking. I am not vegan but I love to cook vegan dishes at home and I try to eat one or more vegan meals a day-- I think its good for my body, the environment and makes the world a better place. I think the industrial food complex is really fucking up things so I try to be mindful about that stuff. The more organic, non gmo, hormone and antibiotic free, the better. Dairy is the devil (read the China Study) but i fucking love ice cream and cheese.... grrrrrr

My musical tastes are widely varied and by widely i mean i really like Avenged Sevenfold, Katy Perry, Pretty Lights, Skrillex, Muse, Sarah Vaughan, Alterbridge, all the classic rock stuff like Zeppelin and Hendrix, Parliament, Funkadelic, RHCP, RATM, Alice In Chains, Michael Jackson, Tori Amos, Portishead, The Crystal Method, Bjork, Alexi Murdoch. Listen to his song Orange Sky:

Great song:

Dig on Incubus too:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, friendship, sunshine, music, humor, sexy time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether Tinder is a good thing or a bad thing... thoughts?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to figure out why I chose such a crappy username... oh right, that was what OKC suggested...
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