I can be silly, sometimes too serious, witty, down to earth, fun, a hard working, ethical and extremely loyal to those who deserve it. I have also been told well-rounded, wise for my years, sassy, strong and a survivor. I love spending time with that special someone, whether going out or staying home (a healthy mixture of both). I have a very loving labradoodle and a kitten cat (who recently adopted me) who I adore.
I have fun doing just about anything! I LOVE to fish (if you’ll bait my shrimp) and be on the water, though I’m not really a beach person. The only thing you won't catch me doing “for fun” is jumping out of a plane. Oh yeah, not big into exercising just to exercise… so I have little in common with gym rats. I am curvy, thick, Rubenesque, or hourglass; you can pick the term you prefer but if none of those are your type, please don’t waste either of our time as I am who I am and comfortable with it.
I try to live drama free and keep my life in check, but anyone that says “no drama and must have your life together” is an idiot. I will check you off as “can’t count on during difficult times.” We all face challenges sometimes; I know I have had my fair share. Like most people, I’ve been MAJORLY hurt in the past. I have always led with my heart and an “don’t let nasty people and bad experience ruin the good person you are!” attitude but after being deeply hurt several times and feeling like a target for lowlife lying scum I find it hard to open up and let someone close or trust (even if on the surface I appear otherwise). At the same time, I have so much love to give and want to find someone to trust and spend my life with…I still have faith in finding my best friend and my soul mate rolled into one amazing man…. So I keep looking, even if sometimes I have to force myself to not run away screaming like I just saw the clown from “It”. I know, I’m a challenge… but anything worth something usually is.
I have a pretty good life with good friends, family, and happy times; I hope to find the right man to complete my world. I know what I want, who I am… and I’ve put it out there. So… in a (admittedly long) nut shell, that’s all folks!