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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 4:11pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Catholicism and laughing about it
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a big believer that you should enjoy what you do in life! I'm attracted to different types of women, but the main things is that they have an energy and spirit about them - I'm a sucker for a great smile and good sense of humor. Ideally, I'd like to find a woman with a good heart and a quick wit, a talented conversationalist who occasionally finds herself accused of being opinioniated. I enjoy people who are passionate about their pursuits and interests even if they are different than mine. There does need to be a physical chemistry and spark, for sure, but I think that comes naturally. Basically I'm looking for someone who loves life and helps me be my best self. Could that be you? :) Um and apparently my profile used to say I'm skinny which sadly is definitely not the case. Just noticed that when I added these last couple of pictures.

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Workin' in politics for the good guys of course :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think I'm an okay poker player. I'm pretty analytical and can be incisive. I have a mind for trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I dunno. Depends on the situation I guess. Perhaps it's my unusual way of thinking about things sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I usually can be found with exciting page turners about gilded age presidents nobody can recall :) I read more non-fiction than fiction.
Movies: A quick top 5 of sorts, though I'm flexible: (again in no particular order) Manchurian Candidate (Sinatra please), Henry V (Branagh please), Citizen Kane, Strange Brew, Groundhog Day.
Music: I love freeform WFMU and have a wide variety of musical tastes. I like a lot of early 80s stuff, but also have Zappa and Cornelius, and Young Fresh Fellows, and old ska and like a whole bunch of other stuff. If it's good I like it. Btw, this is like a totally unrepresentative sample.
Food: I can't call myself a foodie. I'm pretty basic. I like Italian probably better than anything else I guess :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hrm, this list is probably all wrong since ya don't know what got 'til its gone (or so goes the logic of a cheesy 80s song). Taking most practical things off the table (family friends air etc) I would say in no particular order: good bagels, wfmu radio, sports, chocolate, game shows, and dang, don't make me choose between colbert and stewart!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hmm, lots of stuff. Probably what passes for detailed communications these days.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Kinda depends, could be out seeing a band in the city or checking out a Devils game (when it's hockey season) or just hanging out at Starbucks with friends. Poker sometimes as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My social security number is...but seriously if I admit it here, it's not exactly private, now is it?
You should message me if
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You would like to get to know me.
Are not an evil hackerbot bent on world destruction.