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MyNameIsSpud

31 M Fullerton, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm finally coming to the realization that trying to be what one is not is not a recipe for happiness or success. Yes, I realize that we are constantly bombarded with messages from our culture that we should "just be ourselves." I've generally thought that this was borderline vapid sloganeering, but there does seem to be some truth to it. So...I've decided not to modify or judge my strange sense of humor (a lot of puns and wordplays) or my intellectual interests and proclivities.

I'm a philosophical type of thinker, almost pathologically so, and therefore I'm always thinking, considering, weighing, speculating, etc. about all sorts of issues. If we can explore these kinds of things together, the better fit I think we could be.
What I’m doing with my life
Navel contemplation, musical experimentation, occasional masturbation, mathematical summation, ideological correlation, and rhyming. (I blew that last one, sorry.)

In all seriousness, I've changed my perspective on some things the past few months and years. I'm now devoting my life toward pursuing those artistic and personal interests of mine that give me meaning and passion. I am studying acting and I am trying to get my foot in the door in that world.
I’m really good at
Ah...this is a very humble question designed to showcase one's humility I see.

I won't presume to speak on a subject matter on which only others may speak of. I don't wish to be a self-deceiver or braggart about things which I may be wrong about. Get to know me and judge for yourself what I am good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know...that's your job isn't it?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Early/Mid-90s to mid-2000s heavy rock is my "specialty" music. Though Primus is my first love, Isis is by far and away my favorite band. I've owned their album "Panopticon" for 6 years or so and I still listen to it in its entirety probably once a week at least. I also love me some Tool. Every musician that has heard my guitar playing makes some comment on how my guitars riffs sound Tool-ish. System of a Down, Alice in Chains, Soundgarden, Chevelle...it is all good.

I've gotten very picky about my favorite movies. I can tolerate good escapist movies, but my very favorites are always in the existentialist vein. I love "I Heart Huckabees," "The Fountain," "Thin Red Line," "The Tree of Life," and a few others. I don't watch TV much, but I love "House" (at least the first few seasons) and late-night comedy, especially "Conan" and "Craig Ferguson." Take your reality TV shows somewhere else, if you will.

I read a lot of books...but they are mostly likely ones you haven't heard of because I'm a nerd and read a lot of non-fiction social science and philosophy books.
The six things I could never do without
Six is sort of an arbitrary number, isn't it? And there is something about the phrasing of this prompt that is awkward to me...anyone else notice that? (By the way, isn't it funny how the word "awkward" is itself kind of awkward?)

I guess going by my response above, one thing I can't go without is questioning things. As I'm getting bored with this question, I will now proceed to ignore it and move on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy, love, pain, politics, possibilities, constraints, social negotiations, language, human psychology, religion, spirituality, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing as typical, as every moment is unique. (Cue New Age music.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Admitting a private thing in public by definition makes it not private anymore, and therefore this prompt is contradictory.

And yes...I'm very fun at parties with this analytical attitude. :-P
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
I love massages! Oh, wait...