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MyOtherNameIsFez

46 M Medford, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:54am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Technology
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am starting to suspect that I may not be an introvert after all, but I'm not an extrovert, so...?

I am young at heart, but old in spirit - which sounds like bullshit when you write it but it's also true. More than one person has said that I am a real life representation of Lawful Good, which I cannot truthfully deny. (See! :)

I enjoy singing, and once performed in a Local Theater production of Jesus Christ Superstar.

I can be charming as hell when I try, and flirty and fun, but I am equally likely to forget to mention how much I like your new haircut, because I'm also dumb like that.

I am Polyamorous and am currently looking for casual dating opportunities, but I'm open to it becoming more.

I love cuddling, but I feel like when I guy says this it's seen as a ploy. (Maybe this should have been my admission down below?)

I was Time Magazine's 2006 Person of the Year (but really, wasn't everybody?)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have always been good with computers, and so three years ago now I moved to Boston to be in a larger tech community. Since then I've earned my first Microsoft Certification and am working on others.

I recently changed jobs and I now really love what I do, which has wrought many other good things upon my life. (I feel much more 'dateable' now.)

Once a year, I and hundreds of friends get to take over the BCEC and throw a giant party called PAX. It's kinda popular. :)

I have realized that I feel more fulfilled when I have events to look forward to. And since the calendar only has 52(ish) weeks, if I find 52 yearly events that I love, I win! So far I'm at 6.

Also I am now a beginning knitter. I've now progressed to purling. I don't see why everyone hates it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Technology. Computers mainly, but basically if it runs on electricity or batteries, I'm the guy you want around when it breaks.

Hearing things other people don't. (Also being able to identify obscure actors as soon as they open their mouths.)

Being the first one to realize that the power is about to go out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I apparently look and act a LOT younger than I am. I FEEL about 21, but of course everyone says that.

The beard helps some - I'm a super babyface without it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Doctor Who, most Science Fiction, Theater, Karaoke.

TV - Doctor Who, Red Dwarf, Max Headroom, Torchwood, Firefly and just recently Sherlock.

Music - Weird Al, Daft Punk, Amanda Palmer, Molly Lewis and The Doubleclicks. I like a lot more than this, but this captures me pretty well. :)

Books - The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series by Douglas Adams, The Fault in Our Stars by John Green.

Reading - Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality. Google HPMOR if you are interested in a Fan Fic with the premise that Petunia married a biochemist, and Harry grew up reading science and science fiction. Then came the Hogwarts letter, and a world of intriguing new possibilities to exploit.

Food - I love comfort foods. Gimme that meat and starch.

Movies - TFiOS, Frozen (I saw the 3D AND the Sing-Along versions.), Motivational Growth, Electric Dreams, Serenity, The Princess Bride, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Office Space

Internet Media - Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, Epic Rap Battles of History.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've done without so many things that I once thought I could not that this list is hard for me. But if we mean six things I do not WANT to go without, they would be, in no particular order...

1) Affection, in all its many forms.
2) Novelty
3) Theater
4) Quiet Time
5) Music
6) Mentally challenging work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve myself. What I could be doing differently to move towards being the person I think I should be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can be hanging out with friends at Good Life, singing Karaoke somewhere, board game night at home, or spending time getting to know someone better.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was/am a late bloomer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think that making new friends is great, but also looking for more.

You are willing to be pleasantly surprised.