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Mychon

44 / M / gay / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am silly, spiritual, and reserved.

My Self-Summary

I'm sometimes goofy and sometimes reserved. I love to meet people, but can be shy at first. I tend to be a little too logical for my own good and usually end up putting my foot my mouth... along with my other foot :o)
I'm hiv+, healthy, and have a positive outlook on life. I live with two red heelers that tend to dominate my life quite abit, but I'm okay with that 'cause I wouldn't have it any other way.
I love sci fi, horror movies, anything with martial arts and, I must admit, I've been known to watch a good chic flick; especially the ones that make you wanna to cry.

You know I realized as I was reviewing what I've written that there's no category for what you're looking for in a mate... Maybe that's by design, but... well... here's a poem I came across that says it all:

To Put It Simply, I Want You
by Iloveit

I want to be your companion
and walk hand in hand,
your strength enveloping mine.
Autumn leaves falling,
scuffing feet and laughter,
sharing nights, not finished by the dark.

I want to be your confidant
as you pen your deepest
thoughts, as your heartaches
bleed and finally break free.
Your dreams, I keep as if my own.
I want to smile as you smile
and giggle with you
at nothing at all.

I want to be your lover
and find the passions
that move you to action.
I want to be the softness
that induces you to trust.
I want to be the naughty
that makes you come back for more.
I want to please you.

I want to share your breakfast
and your dinner,
I want you in the shower
and in your bed and
with soft steps to bring you coffee
(I take mine black)
Your strong arms, the legs
that power your thrust,
your lips of pleasure,
these are the fuel of my desire

no it is no secret, my love,
and to put it very simply,
I want you.

And that, is it in a nutshell.

What I’m doing with my life

Working on my house, playing with my dogs, working on my spirituality, and constantly in a state of confusion, but always willing to keep an open mind that I don't know "everything".
Keeping myself open for "the one"... If there is such a thing :o)

I’m really good at

1) Solving complicated problems... in fact, I really like it.

2) Writing

3) Conflict resolution... It's because of the job!

4) Project management

5) Loving my neice and nephews

6) Procrastinating and not doing the yard work.

The first things people usually notice about me

Honestly.. I'm not really sure... but maybe my tattoos, my eyes, and the fact that I have a lot of body hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love sci fi and fantasy, self improvement and spirituality books... I figure somewhere along the line, something will stick, and anything that deals with sociological/sociotheology concepts and philosophy.
Food... chinese and american such as messy ribs, fried chicken, etc.
I'm a big fan of the 80's, janet jackson, and dance music.

The six things I could never do without

1) My tatooes

2) My beard

3) My dogs

4) Reading

5) My friends

6) The ability to keep growing and learning

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My life and where I am and where I want to go from here.

On a typical Friday night I am

Eating good after a busy week... then cuddlin' up with my pups to have a really good sleep. Oh... and watching smallville and sanctuary. Or... I'm out with friends, hanging.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I can be a really clumsy person.

You should message me if

You're interested and want to connect.