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Mystin

29 / M / straight / Single

Frankfort, Kentucky

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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I am affectionate, competitive, and empathic.

My Self-Summary

Well, for starters, I help out with a family-run pre-school business. I am a huge cat fan, and have four cats of my own. I am also a Virgo.

I am a philosopher, I love thinking and asking why of others. It's a big deal for me to think openly, and try to consider all options, even the ones which people are most offended by. We're all unique, and we all should try to remember this and respect each other for how we think and what we do. I do -not- condone hurting others for the sake of hurting others however.

I am extremely affectionate, I love to cuddle, and snuggle beyond most males I know. I love sex, do not get me wrong, but I need to feel a closeness with who I am with before I truly feel all of the rewards which sex can give. I can also purr too ;)

Right now, I seek a girl who has her head on straight, but also is loving, kind, and open to many different experiences. Open mindedness is a -must- to me. Nothing bores me quicker than a person who refuses to think for themselves.

Anything else outside of this is up to you to find out my fellow readers. I assure you, I'll be an interesting experience no matter who you are.

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What I’m doing with my life

Right now I am just enjoying life to the fullest. Life is short, and there are too many things I wish to go out and see and experience for myself.

I’m really good at

Being a friend, and good listener. I also love deep conversation, and find it thrilling to be able to talk to someone who has an open mind as well as an open heart. I also do quite well with massages and helping those around me feel better physically as well as emotionally should there be a problem.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am charismatic, I don't usually let things get to me on the exterior. I am deeply passionate about things, especially those I care deeply for. I don't like to kiss up to other people. My philosophy is you'll either like me for me or we're probably wasting each other's time.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) George Orwell's 1984. Hrm... As much as I am loathe to say it, reading hasn't been high on my agenda as of late. Yes, I am picky about my environment when it comes to reading. It must be calm, undisturbed, and comfortable. Sadly, finding that environment lately has been near impossible at best.

b) I enjoy many movies types and genres. Horror, Comedy, Action, you name it, I've probably seen it or am eagerly anticipating it when it comes out in stores.

c) I'm not really "punk" nor "goth" so to speak, but I do enjoy some of their music. I'm not a fan of country, although I can tolerate it, and I also don't even see rap as actual music. Anything else is pretty much enjoyable, and I especially love techno.

d) chinese/thai/mexican/italian. I also swoon to the taste of a well prepared steak.

The six things I could never do without

1) My friends, without a doubt. They help me learn and grow beyond words.

2) My family. They were responsible for me for being here, so I guess that would attribute some sort of importance for them being in my life ;)

3) My cats. It's amazing what kind of relationship that you can develop with an animal.

4) My beliefs. I think quite uniquely, and I am quite proud of how I think and the way I think.

5) A way to communicate with people. Be it phone or internet.

6) Myself. Obviously, this is something very important to me ;) I wouldn't be me without well... me?

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

Hrm... no idea to be honest. I do have a few friends I'd love to swap brains with, but since the people who read this don't know who that is, it's a rather moot point to put it here isn't it? ;)

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends, be it playing games, out in the city, or even the occasional bar scene if I am bored enough. I find life is more interesting when sober, and try to find other events to entertain myself with when possible ;)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I find shyness and innocence to be a terribly attractive and arousing trait.

For some reason, I am also subconsciously obsessed with Leos.

You should message me if

You want a deep thinker who won't judge you for who you are. If you seek someone who seeks love for the world and his soulmate as well. If you want to meet someone who has control of their life, and even their sexual drives. If you want someone who actually genuinely will care about what you have to say and will listen and give an -honest- reflection to what you'd like to know.