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47 M Napa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:44pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and very serious about it
Libra, and it matters a lot
Graduated from space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Greek (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Recently single (6 months now) taking things SLOW...Seeking new platonic friends, playmates for Scuba diving, cycling, yoga, LIFE! Eventually seeking a deeper type of bond (monogamous) (if/when one should present itself). At the moment...taking a break from romantic dating....
What I’m doing with my life
I own a contemporary art gallery and I am also an artist. I have exhibited my work all over the US and
currently live in northern California (wine country). I spend most of my time making prints in my darkroom and the rest of my time I run my gallery, hang out with my arty friends, listen to music, read, study art, cycle, do YOGA & Tai Chi, meditate, scuba dive, contemplate the nature of reality, ruminate on the mystery of life, breathe deeply.....etc.
I’m really good at
Just about everything. lol I wish!
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes, skin and shoulders/chest in that order...:) But in all we ever really know what other people notice or what they are thinking??? I have an athletic build, 180lbs 6ft tall, I work out everyday (meditate, Yoga, lift weights). Ethnicity is Greek and Russian Jew (on my mothers side). I was raised with European sensibilities....although my immediate family has lived in the states for many years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by Rumi, Kahlil Gibran, Ken Wilbur, Pema Chodron, Carlos Castenda, Hafiz, Rod Stryker, Marianna Caplan, Jeremy Narby, Hafiz, Gore Vidal, Anais Nin, Oscar Wilde, Shakespeare, Lord Byron, Dante Gabriel Rosetti. I have over 1000 books in my library. Top favs, The Alchemist, The Adversary and the Non Born King (Saga of Pliocene Exile), If the Buddha Had Dated, The Secret Life of Salvador Dali, The Wayfarer Series by Dennis Schmidt, Lord of the Rings, The Chronicles of Amber by Roger Zelazny, anything about depth psychology, mythology, archetypes, Jungian ANYTHING....just too many to list.

Fav movies....anything with Scarlett Johannson in it..especially Girl with a Pearl Earring, Possession, Harold and Maude, Wallace & Grommet, The Fantastic Mr Fox, Blade Runner, High Fidelity,Pan's Labyrinth, Once, Eat Pray Love, Enders Game (read the book when I was a kid), Vanilla Sky, Inception, all of the Jason Bourne movies, Heat, Edward Scissorshands, Hero, Crouching Tiger/Hidden Dragon, Dark City, all of the Matrix movies, Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter and Spring, Kpax, Whip It, When Harry Met Sally, The Usual Suspects, Willy Wonka (60's version), 300, Big Trouble in Little China, The Princess Bride, Talk to Her, Frida, Napoleon Dynamite, Star Wars, Lost in Translation, Ghost World, Girl on a Bridge, City of God, Rivers and Tides, League of Extrodinary Gentlemen, The English Patient, Damage, The Crow, Donnie Darko,The Pianist, The Professional, Hellboy, Being John Malkovich, Cleopatra, Casablanca,Fist Full of Dollars, The Guns of Navarrone, Ben Hur, Jason and the Argonauts, Pi-Faith in Chaos, Requiem for a Dream, Into the Wild, Sin City, The Spirit, Day of the Jackal, Cinema Paradiso, Elizabeth: The Golden Age, Lord of The Rings, Across the Universe, The Thirteenth Floor, Rize, Secretary, Scanners, A History of Violence, Kill Bill 1 & 2, Chocolat, The Libertine, Sin City, The Constant Gardner, Django Unchained, Cloud Atlas, ....

Fave music....Portishead, Kosma, Murcof, 60 Channels, Subnautic, LunaGroove, Aes Danna, Cross my Heart Hope To Die, Carbon Base Life Forms, The Star Seeds, Mazzy Star, Bittersweet, Beth Gibbons, Archive, Blackfish, Sushi Club, Black Tape for a Blue Girl, Everything But the Girl,Dead Can Dance, Baxter, DJ Shadow, Prince, Oingo Boingo, Sting, Police, Cat Stevens, Led Zeppelin, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Bill Evans, Herbie Hancock, Jaco Pastorius, Billy Holiday, Shiela Chandra, Bjork, Madonna, Joni Mitchell, King Crimson, The Amalgamation of Soundz, Air, Orb, Moby, Massive Attack, Pete Namlook, Vox, Mindtrap, Ruxpin, Afro Mystik, Erykah Badu, D'Angelo, Deep Dive Corp, Andy Summers, Brian Eno, Azam Ali, Aphex Twin, Backworld, King Krimson, Trentemoller, Vangelis, Hux Flux, Sushiclub, Savina Yannatou, Rothko, Brian Eno, Tangerine Dream, Robert Fripp, Gus Gus, Funki Porcini, David Bickley, Byungki Hwang, Bjork, Biosphere, Honeyroot, Digitalis, Drum Druid, Zero Cult-X, Alex Grey, HUVA Network, Higher Intelligence Agency....and on...and on...

Favorite Artists: Remedios Varo, Irina Ionesco, Mona Kuhn, Motherwell, Braque, Picasso (high cubist period), Dante Gabriel Rosetti, Edward Burne-Jones, Irving Penn, Bill Brandt, Jan Sudek, Oscar Bernal, Rocky Schenck, Patrick Nagatani, Tamara de Lempicka, Egon Schiele, El Greco, Bernini, Chadaute, Carpeaux, Escher and many others....

Indian Food, Thai, Malaysian, Sushi, French, Italian, Pakistani, Vietnamese, Greek, Mexican and Puerto Riccan food!!! I love FOOD!
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Art, music, international travel, politics, the environment, ancient history, comparative religions, intuitive knowledge, spirit totems, wabi sabi, archetypes, philosophy, shamanism, the plasticity of the perception of time, BURNING MAN....

Watch this video....and then you will have some insight to the topics I like to ruminate about:

Personality type IFSP....deep...always trying to penetrate to the deeper levels of meaning. Life as metaphor...the unconscious dictates our choices more so than the conscious mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
My life is anything but night I could be working in my studio until 2 am....or out with friends...or tucked in bed with my cat and a good book by 9pm.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A man has to keep some mystery about him....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if are an artist or someone involved in the arts on a professional level: (writer, singer, graphic or industrial designer, painter, sculptor, actor, musician, film or theater director, professional dancer, architect, photographer or other professional creative career).... or someone in the scientific or academic world, (astronomer, organic chemist, archeologist, engineer, architect, professor, analyst, doctor, astro-plasma physicist, marine biologist, ...etc).

I am also looking for more platonic friends (both male and female) to go bicycling, scuba diving, do YOGA with, practice Tai Chi together, kayaking and hiking with. Also like to play board games (Scrabble, Agricola, Carcassonne, backgammon, Settlers of Cattan, TITAN, etc...)

Just to clarify....I am not bi or gay. Not that I have anything against bi or gay people...on the contrary...I have many close friends whose sexual preferences span the entire gamut of human expression. But I have been approached by men who have somehow interpreted my profile as being sexually ambiguous in regards to my preference in a I am setting the record straight....that when it comes to an intimate would be a female partner I would be open to platonic friends of all persuasions is another matter entirely. Also not that interested in being in a poly or open relationship at this time. Done that...been there...prefer to have a monogamous relationship for the foreseeable future. No offense to my poly friends...

Would also like to expand my circle of Burner friends for creative projects and collaborations for the desert! Let's pool forces and make something beautiful this year on the Playa!