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Mystophur

44 / M / Straight / Single

Glendale, California

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Italian (Okay), Dutch (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Theatre director, tenor, mystical skeptic, and artmonk. I love the magical alchemy of expression and communication from creating wacky social gatherings to chant liturgies in Italian churches and rock operas about Burning Man.
What I’m doing with my life
Back on the West Coast after 12 years in Rome, Berlin, & Amsterdam and splitting time between LA and SF. Developing musical theatre and ritual theatre projects. Helping the Art Monastery and all of its good works around the world. www.artmonastery.org
I’m really good at
Envisioning the possible. Occasionally even manifesting it.
The first things people usually notice about me
Generally, I soon provoke a sort of cognitive dissonance... that I enjoy.
The six things I could never do without
humor
passion
expression
connection
ridiculousity
discovery
I spend a lot of time thinking about
love, sexuality, gender, self-awareness, ritual, ethics, music, theatre, politics
On a typical Friday night I am
either cooking a dinner for friends
or IN researching a project,
or OUT being silly with amusing people
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Still working at dissolving my ego and transcending my desires
oh, and I was initiated as a voodoo priest in Haiti... not practicing, though, so I don't accept requests for torturing exes via little dolls... really a big misunderstanding, BTW
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-you would like to have some new adventures in your life... share wit, wisdom, dinner parties, art, juicy excitement and soul connection with me.

-you are open to being in the moment and seeing where that journey takes us. If you're mainly auditioning people to fit into a traditional monogamous relationship, this will probably be frustrating for everyone involved. I'm all about an honest, compassionate, creative, inspiring process and am open to wherever it might lead (for example, regarding the appropriate format for a relationship). So I'm only willing to dive into to a relationship with someone open to discovering that mutually-inspiring sweetspot as well.

-you believe anything is possible