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38 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 36–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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For many years I was a ne’r do well backpackacker until one day I decided I needed to join society, so naturally I went for job in the travel industry. I have travelled to over 20 countries and been on all seven continents. But I love Brooklyn the most. It never ceases to impress me.

I grew up in San Francisco and have lived in NYC for 9 years. I always think eventually I will move back west.

My philosophy on life is, "Things worth doing are worth doing well." ~ Marilyn Monroe, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, 1952
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Self-editing. Looking up words in the thesaurus so I can be witty when flirt-texting.

I dabble in the programical arts. This past year I worked with a small group to build an app that stores passwords and is free in the apple store. It runs solid and looks sexy, It's awesome.

I spend time with my singing coach and at the jazz jams, and out hearing singers for inspiration.

I swim, bike, lift weights and do cheesy walking exercise videos on Hulu.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a lot of friends from different walks of life. <3 them all dearly.

Also I’m funny, though nothing sounds quite so unfunny as writing, “I’m funny.” But I have been known to play the clown.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am obsessed with retro glamour, so when I hit it right I look like a classic movie star, or at least a well-kept 1950s housewife.

I have a curvy bod in an out-in-out way. When I concede that my actual true body type is curvy, it's not an euphemism for bovine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love torch singers from the 50s, big band jazz, swinging cocktail music and the American songbook.

My cupboards have grains, legumes, a cornucopia of fresh fruits and vegetables, and organic meats. I am well-suited with someone who appreciates and embraces a healthy food lifestyle. Korean food is my favorite. Anyang! That's Korean for: Hello.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My extensive music collection - that's my happy place.
Sidecar cocktails in low lit lounges.
The happy little heaven I've made my Brooklyn brownstone apartment.
My twice yearly visits home to San Francisco to see my family.
Werkin' out.
Flowers. Chicks dig flowers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fill out an online dating profile without coming off as contrived. Nope! Just kidding, that is not possible.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with work friends, or other friends, or out to see music or dancing, or on a date, or resting up for a plentiful weekend.

But that is the thing about NYC, any night can be Friday night if you want it to be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fact: I have a bit of an Antarctic iceberg in my freezer
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are cute, hot and good.

Age-appropriate, please. Preferably within in Satern cycle. Too esoteric? That means about 35-42. I can skew older. My age as listed is (gasp!) honest.