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N3rdGur1

30 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:16am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am... a highly-empathic, ambitious-but-down-to-earth would-be-entrepreneur with a non-negotiable love of polysyllabic-hyphenates.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I once heard someone say that software is the modern gold rush, except there's actually gold there. I think that person is right.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things! Basically anything I set my mind to...

Things like:

Geometry Wars
2048
Remembering funny quotes
Forgetting those quotes and trying without success to retrieve them
Critiquing HBO shows
Losing things
Logic puzzles
UX/UI
Singing
Making lists
Crossing things off lists
Making people laugh
Knowing random trivia
And Snood. I'm a world champion at Snood.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm outgoing and funny, and I try to always have something interesting to say. That, or the fact that I'm extremely very pale.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I like high fiction mostly, with the occasional political critique like a Michael Lewis. Science fiction of course - Dune, etc. but generally literature with a message. I just finished Neverwhere because somehow I skipped Neil Gaiman entirely (except for Sandman, of course). Now I get to devour his entire works though, so I guess it worked out ok!

Movies: I watch a lot of movies. I can talk about them for days. Although I'd have to say my favorite of all time is The Princess Bride, I can appreciate the heights of the medium: Lynch, Polanski, Kubrick, and modern greatness: Aronofsky, Jonze, Whedon.

T.V.: I also have great taste in TV. The obvious ones like Breaking Bad and True Detective, and the hidden gems like Orphan Black and Rick & Morty. Buffy, however, will always have a special place in my heart.

Music: I was classically trained in piano and voice for more than a decade, so I am all over the place when it comes to music. Andrew Bird, Jack White, Rachmaninoff, Sleigh Bells, Pretty Lights, Minus the Bear, YACHT, The Mountain Goats, lots of stuff. Anything that's good.

Food: The spicier, the better. However, I'm on a mission to try out every restaurant in Manhattan. I won't argue if you offer to meet up with me for the first time at Per Se.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well, the Internet of course. And my PS3. Philosophical discourse. My Chase Preferred Sapphire travel card. Spotify.

I know that's only 5 things, but I think that about covers the necessities...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The relative strength of modal claims and how they relate to time travel with regard to its metaphysical possibility, specifically whether the four dimensionalist theory of objects is good enough to satisfy the grandfather paradox. Among other philosophical things... And physics. And what it means to be alive.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably watching Netflix. Saturday nights, however, are a different story...

I try to stay relatively on top of free and affordable NYC events and the ones that are a bit pricey but also just can't be missed. Concerts, pop up dinners, new restaurants and bar openings, art shows, film screenings, parties, etc. I'm spending a lot of time recently in my new Brooklyn neighborhood and the results have been overwhelmingly positive so far!

Or, alternatively, I might be at home watching Amazon Instant when the Netflix queue runs cold. Life is meant for us to enjoy it, I think, and to absorb as many positive experiences from it while we can. But balance, I've found, truly is the key to a happy time here. Everything in moderation... even moderation itself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a little bit of darkness in my past. As a result I am stronger, happier, and better equipped to deal with adversity than most.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're quirky weird and fun and you love cartoons and the internet but you also *HAVE SOCIAL SKILLS* and are looking for a meaningful connection with an equal human being in this fucked up, crazy world.

You noticed that in the above sentence I failed to use an Oxford comma. It irks you privately, but you accept and admire my stylistic choice.

You kind of think this cultural obsession with the Oxford comma is just about as played out as the old Chuck Norris meme, but you're willing to laugh at it with me, at least this one last time.

You're really, really smart and like talking about things that normal people don't like talking about for fear of stepping on someone's toes.

You're not looking for someone to watch animal porn with you and your girlfriend who's cool with it.