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N8SLC

38 / M / Gay / Seeing someone

Salt Lake City, Utah

His Details

Last Online
Jun 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I was born and raised in Utah, originally from Logan and have lived in the Salt Lake area for many years. I am very relationship oriented when I find someone that works with me and I have been lucky to have had three great long term relationships. That being said, I have decided that I am no longer in a race to beat Elizabeth Taylor's husband count and am content with being single until the universe decides otherwise.

I value compassion, humility, wit, respect and a sense of humor in others. I tend to be shy in large social groups and connect best with people one on one. I love my crazy family and spend as much time with them as I can.

Music is something that I connect with emotionally. I love movies, particularly the ones that stray from the mainstream formulas. I'm definitely a geek when it comes to gadgets and other electronics. I enjoy nature and have found a day hike or just a quick trip into the mountains help keep me spiritually centered.

I'm very open minded and people of all types and ideas fascinate me. I love to travel.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work for the State of Utah in the IT field. It's a job that I enjoy and am grateful for.

My primary focus in life right now is improving myself spiritually through letting go of irrational fears from the past, being more cognizant of others and less self oriented, and finding the beauty in things people tend to take for granted.
I’m really good at
Fixing/building computers
Listening to others
Resisting road rage
Hugging
Baking
The first things people usually notice about me
I would probably lose big time if this question were on Family Feud. I'm sure people notice that I'm shy and maybe a little awkward at first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music
Adele
Annie Lennox
Depeche Mode
Erasure
Kate Bush
Kelly Clarkson
Kylie Minogue
Linda Eder
Melissa Etheridge
Morrissey
Natalie Merchant
New Order
Nine Inch Nails
No Doubt
Peter Gabriel
Pink
Queen
REM
Rob Thomas
Sarah McLachlan
Stevie Nicks
Tears for Fears
The Cranberries
The Sugarcubes
Tina Turner
Tori Amos
Tracy Chapman

Movies
Aliens
Amelie
Auntie Mame
Fried Green Tomatoes
Memento
Moulin Rouge
Poltergeist
Running with Scissors
Star Trek
Steel Magnolias
Up

Food
Most anything that isn't watermelon
The six things I could never do without
Internet
Phone
Coffee
Music
Serenity
Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Tony... Wondering where he is, what he is doing, and will he ever return someday? :P
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends, then quiet time at home. If something more tantalizing comes up I usually bite.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I probably share too freely as it is. I'll spare you any details here but you can always ask.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, activity partners