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33 Goleta, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 21
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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“Meet me at the Kasbah” is a theme I strive for when on a date. I value conversation that acts as a meeting point and refuge for travelers and traders of (and from) diverse direction and experience. I’ve been single for multiple years now while working rigorously on my career. During these past years I’ve very much enjoyed my (little) free time as personal time to explore an area I’m relatively new to. Nevertheless, I know I can thrive off of deep, steady companionship, and when possible keep an eye out for it. I am very practical and serious and value connection in that way. However, I also realize I want companionship that can offers playfulness, spontaneity, exploration, creativity, and steady activity. I have a deep imagination and like to create things with my hands, but this doesn’t mean they will not be practical and functional in everyday life.

What is the coolest thing I have ever built?
The coolest thing was a bamboo treehouse (~35ft up in the air) on an island in the large estuary I grew up on. It was environmentally conscious because the construction method did not use any nails to penetrate the tree. In this way the construction method did not compromise the trees health or safety and integrity of the branches that supported it. Also the bamboo is quickly replenished after harvesting.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring capabilities, talents and the world
I’m really good at
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I tend to get along very well with all age groups from very young kids to the elderly. I am very much an animal lover and consistently wish I could have the right situation for dog. I am not exclusive to any degree and have not found adherence to a specific type of people or groups - “runners” “surfers” “divers” “cyclists” ect. I would find these boundaries too constraining. I very much value a transitional nature to social interaction. In a given social situation I may often tend to integrate anyone who appears to be excluded. In the past I have often connected well with other ethnic groups or foreign people.

I am a good communicator - genuine, sincere and straight forward. Although I engage some very extreme activities I've never broken a bone. I have never broke a tooth and I have never had a cavity. I chipped a tooth on a fork once. I don't have any tattoos. I have recently taken up acro yoga and I find establishing trust, cooperation and friendliness towards fellow humans (strangers) or a regular social body under a broader context of fun and playfulness is compelling and healthy. I’m a solid swimmer and enjoy water-sports most often, including: body-surfing, diving (free diving or snorkeling and scuba) and on occasion spearfishing. I also really enjoy beach running.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I get complements on my thick hair, eyes, smile and skin.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The past few years of grad school and a draw to be outdoors regularly has kept me from reading much for pleasure. I have trouble defining favorites of anything - books songs, places, ect. As far as categories of movies, I usually dig documentaries, true stories, and some action movies. Foreign films are usually good. I like a diversity of music including: Oldies, Soul Motown, Bluegrass, Jazz, Ethnic and World music, Classic rock, Alternative, Gen X, Indie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
imagination and creativity
You should message me if
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-you enjoy inspiration, art, laughter, and curiosity
-you like museums, plays and concerts, picnics, antiquing or similar shopping
-you have a some desire to be outside and in nature fairly regularly